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Does anyone do this ? What do you think I should do?

When my college peers do something I do not like or is being disrespectful towards me I Ignore them when they are try to speak to me. Because if I’m annoyed why are you speaking to me ? It’s not like they have no clue what they have done. They know what they do and do not accept fault. And I’m tired of repeating myself and pointing what they did and there is no change .I do things for other but when it’s for me it’s a different story. But yeah even in general if they do something I’m not happy with I just ignore them.

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by Anonymous
When my college peers do something I do not like or is being disrespectful towards me I Ignore them when they are try to speak to me. Because if I’m annoyed why are you speaking to me ? It’s not like they have no clue what they have done. They know what they do and do not accept fault. And I’m tired of repeating myself and pointing what they did and there is no change .I do things for other but when it’s for me it’s a different story. But yeah even in general if they do something I’m not happy with I just ignore them.

I do this a lot as well so I understand your point of view and I think you not talking to them after being offended by them is a whole valid reason because nowadays seems like people don't want to admit to their fault and apologise. Offending someone and moving on from it without an apology is almost like a norm now😔

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by Anonymous
When my college peers do something I do not like or is being disrespectful towards me I Ignore them when they are try to speak to me. Because if I’m annoyed why are you speaking to me ? It’s not like they have no clue what they have done. They know what they do and do not accept fault. And I’m tired of repeating myself and pointing what they did and there is no change .I do things for other but when it’s for me it’s a different story. But yeah even in general if they do something I’m not happy with I just ignore them.

I understand you could be annoyed and you may think the person knows what they did but thats not always the case. You have to be mindful that we all think different and so something you might find annoying could just be banter for someone else. Just ignoring people doesnt solve problems it just creates unessersary tension between people. The best thing to do is just tell the person and if they dont respect that they dont respect you and its best to drop the friendship

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by chickennugg
I understand you could be annoyed and you may think the person knows what they did but thats not always the case. You have to be mindful that we all think different and so something you might find annoying could just be banter for someone else. Just ignoring people doesnt solve problems it just creates unessersary tension between people. The best thing to do is just tell the person and if they dont respect that they dont respect you and its best to drop the friendship


I’m not that type of person to be ignoring someone for innocently not knowing they are doing or to them joking around. What I’m saying they still repeat when I communicated saying I don’t like this. So now I don’t given in and argue I just ignore them if they have offended me. So

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