my relationships are complicated ASAP plz....

I liked a guy who used to flirt me and who was very kind and gentle but all sudden he started liking one of my bestie A becuase my other bestieB asked me if i liked him or not (because it was B's crush and i didnt want ruin them so i said no ) B has another bf btw!
what am i supposed to do?? now my crush(...?) is ignoring me and im so sad, i just start crying for so long...
he ignores my texts, but i dont know who to trust! because yk, girls will do everything for their crush... so if i tell this seeling to bestie A, they'll tell that to my crush and he might hate me more 😭
And he kind of confessed to bestie A and she started having some kind of feelings like i have (he used to ask me if he was my type in text with black image that you can view only once and flirting with me)
but he is in my friend group i cannot ignore but they are so close and im so isolated..
ughhhhhhhhh😭😭😭😭😭

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Original post by loonytuni

I'm sorry this is such an annoying situation for you... :frown:

Well it sounds like he was flirting with you, but if he now likes BestieA, that's really confusing for you.. If he's been ignoring you, don't message him like a lot (like spamming or whatever) bc then he might feel as if you're too full on.. (not saying that you have done this - a few of my friends did this and it really didn't help them) Wait for him to message u first yk, then make sure a conversation goes both ways in a 1:1 ratio, rather than a one-sided conversation.
I'd hate if he had been leading you on at all (however it sounds like he wasnt??), this happened to me too (it happens to the best of us ykkkk) but it may take time to get over him, and it will hurt, but talk to people about it and try new hobbies etc to take your mind off things. :smile:

Ik im just a stranger but i saw that this was unanswered so i rly hope that some of this helped, and i dont mind carrying on talking to u abt it (but i am very busy so it wont be instant replies unfortunately) <3