I am in me mid 30s and have a girlfriend.
My father is 68 and has the full state pension, two private pensions and another income.
He has his mortgage paid off, saves £400 per week, has his daughter married off and more.
I cater for his needs.
My sister has just moved out brought has her own place with his partner.
He moans, complains, argues.
He says I do not get married and don't need to and moans to people I am not married. I can just have a gf. He doesn't listen.
People say why don't you marry so she can cook for my father.
I don't understand.
They may it look like a sacrifice, don't have what I wish. Something bigger than it really is. It's like don't have someone I like,just have someone to do domestic chores.
So I have to sacrifice and my partner has to sacrifice? It means I marry not for myself?
He is still in good health.
I understand small sacrifices have to be made. I can get someone if need be to drop meals off. He doesn't listen.
Should my sister start helping? He doesn't do nothing with the £400 he saves per week, he doesn't really go out.
I think it's extremely unfair if I was to sacrifice my life, my potential married life.