was i in the wrong?

How do you know people were discussing you when they were in a different class?
Why did you walk away when you have no idea what was being said to your friend? Why don't you speak up? You've been told in here so many times that nothing will improve unless you stop imagining every worse case scenario and start talking with people.

cause my friend later on told me that the person said it
cause i had no idea what she was saying as i couldn't hear her and i was just waiting to talk to my friend
at that point i was really upset and did believe that my friend hated me for doing it, i didnt think it was someone else and on that day she acted like the victim

cause my friend later on told me that the person said it
cause i had no idea what she was saying as i couldn't hear her and i was just waiting to talk to my friend
at that point i was really upset and did believe that my friend hated me for doing it, i didnt think it was someone else and on that day she acted like the victim

Aren't you acting like a victim?

Have you asked yourself why your friend is making new friends?
Read your posts; 'believe', 'think'; you make a lot of assumptions in situations. And how did your friend act like a victim; she wanted to talk to you and you walked off! You're past school and in college; don't you think you need to sort out these issues, because what are you going to do after Further Education?

umm no as i was not the one who knew it was wrong to act as i was hurt just from saying something bad to me and then snitch on me to a teacher so i dont get into trouble
i mean i kept it to myself the whole time and i didn't want to make people think i caused it

I mean your attitude in general. Look at the dozens of threads you make in TSR, often several a day. In 90% of them you claim to be the "victim" of someone else's "bad behaviour".

oh okay
i knew it, everytime i get hurt
i always blame myself
it is cause at the beginning of ppl hurting me i felt like why?
but im used to it and know it is always my fault

Initially you blame everyone else. Then you blame yourself. My impression is that you make mountains out of molehills.

no as in it isn't their fault its mine cause im not good enough

as i have social anxiety i dont like to talk alot
but something happened that hurt me
so basically i sat alone with my friend at lunch and at first i was happy ppl didn't stare at me
but then she started to move on to make new friends, at first i had no idea what was happening as she didn't tell me
but she invited me to sit with a group of friends that were in the same year, i felt so comfortable as they were nice people and no one was mean
until i was proven wrong cause someone hated my guts - idk why i have feeling it is to do with who i am or my religion cause my friend is different
and she acted like it is okay for her everyday to be with them (everything was going great until something happened)
one day i went to class and her and my friend was in a different class and they was speaking about me in a bad way but it was the person who hated me i believe
and then at lunch time i went to the table as normal, then my friend pulled me to the side and the person whispered something in her ear before she spoke to me (i am okay with ppl saying things but i thought why not to my face?)
and it was about what they said i think she said 'dont tell her it was'
it was something abt not liking me sitting their, so i went to my bag picked it up and walked away feeling upset
then i went downstairs and sat alone feeling like i should cry - thankfully a teacher saw me and asked me abt what happened
little did i know what my friend would do
later, i heard rumors abt me and knew it was the person who was trying to get my friend to on her side
ngl i dont hate anyone or want to hurt them
but i just feel why

Have you asked yourself why your friend is making new friends?
Read your posts; 'believe', 'think'; you make a lot of assumptions in situations. And how did your friend act like a victim; she wanted to talk to you and you walked off! You're past school and in college; don't you think you need to sort out these issues, because what are you going to do after Further Education?

Initially you blame everyone else. Then you blame yourself. My impression is that you make mountains out of molehills.

i mean i know what it is like to be replaced + maybe she lost interest in me and find them funnier
cause she knew it was the other person who said it but because of what the person said she had to use 1st person so i thought she meant she didn't like it
i didn'y feel comfortable in the situation and knew i had to go away so they can have fun without me
i couldn't be with someone who hates me right??
yeah but how?? cause i didn't know she hated me
and i know it is bad to bring toxicity in my life
so you mean they were right and i'm wrong then?