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Need help with approaching girls

Recently started wanting to approach girls. Just wondering if I could could grab any tips and advices. Like how would you approach a girl that's in a group or with her mother snd should you even approach a girl thats on her phone or wearing headphones. I do go to Uni so I guess there is a lot of options. I end up overthinking when I see a girl I like and then I feel a little nervous then I just walk right past.
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Reply 1

Groups. Game the whole group. Aim to win the whole group over. You can ask the group about the person you're most interested. EG "Is she always this sassy?"

The group advice applies for when she's with her mum. Game the mum. Get the mum to talk about her daughter.

On her phone or headphones. Indicate with your hands that she should put them away. Then start speaking to her if she does. If she doesn't roll your eyes, shrug your shoulders, sigh to yourself. If she still doesn't respond to you, carry on with your day.

Stop taking all this so seriously. Lighten up. Have fun. Enjoy yourself regardless of the reaction you get and the impression you make.

Reply 2

Original post by Dunnig Kruger
Groups. Game the whole group. Aim to win the whole group over. You can ask the group about the person you're most interested. EG "Is she always this sassy?"
The group advice applies for when she's with her mum. Game the mum. Get the mum to talk about her daughter.
On her phone or headphones. Indicate with your hands that she should put them away. Then start speaking to her if she does. If she doesn't roll your eyes, shrug your shoulders, sigh to yourself. If she still doesn't respond to you, carry on with your day.
Stop taking all this so seriously. Lighten up. Have fun. Enjoy yourself regardless of the reaction you get and the impression you make.

Hey. Thanks for the advice. Ah I gotcha so like say something funny to a group basically. Yh I thought so to take make the mother talk about her daughter.

Ok I'll try my best I guess whenever I'm out.

Reply 3

Recently started wanting to approach girls. Just wondering if I could could grab any tips and advices. Like how would you approach a girl that's in a group or with her mother snd should you even approach a girl thats on her phone or wearing headphones. I do go to Uni so I guess there is a lot of options. I end up overthinking when I see a girl I like and then I feel a little nervous then I just walk right past.

when you see a girl you need to comment about their make up, tell them you think they would look better without it on (they like this as it compliments their natural face). always bring up feminist literature and lie about your height they love tall guys so I'd say i'm 6'1.

Reply 4

Original post by Scientist66
when you see a girl you need to comment about their make up, tell them you think they would look better without it on (they like this as it compliments their natural face). always bring up feminist literature and lie about your height they love tall guys so I'd say i'm 6'1.

Thanks. So basically compliment them in a feminist way. Oh don't think I'd be able to lie about my height cuz I'm 5 foot 8 so they'd defo know I'm making it up if I said I'm 6ft lmao.

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