Someone tell me: is this weird?! Is this not normal?

Okay, so I am a new student at my school, it has been 2 months since school started, and I am 14.

I made a friend on the first day of school. Like always, the classic - she asked me if I thought any of the boys I saw from a distance were attractive looking (hot.) I pointed to a boy, and coincidentally, the boy was already friends with my friend (the one who asked me the question.) I asked her to create a group chat between us, and she agreed. Enough of that: ever since I had gotten the boy's number, (2 months ago) we have been texting each other a LOT. But the craziest part? I have never even spoken to him in real life yet! And we go to the same school! We pass by each other in the hallways occasionally, but it's usually my fault - I get too scared to even make eye contact with him. He knows what I look like, too. So basically, our relationship is online but not really... Someone help! How do I meet him in real life if I'm too scared to even look at him? We are both aware that we have NO classes together. He is always with his friends, too. The worst part? I have a huge crush on him, and he's basically a stranger!

The bottom line: I have been texting and snapping this boy from my school for 2 months but we still have not spoken or met in real life yet.

This is abnormal, right?! How do I even approach him in real life if he's always with his friends? If he's alone, I still get scared. Should I just go for it?

Reply 1

toppby55

if you go to the same school why are you not meeting? I'd ghost since he clearly just wants to mess around.

Reply 2

ViviPanda

Original post by toppby55

if you go to the same school why are you not meeting? I'd ghost since he clearly just wants to mess around.

i mean.. maybe he's nervous too

Reply 3

ViviPanda

Original post by em11223

Okay, so I am a new student at my school, it has been 2 months since school started, and I am 14.
I made a friend on the first day of school. Like always, the classic - she asked me if I thought any of the boys I saw from a distance were attractive looking (hot.) I pointed to a boy, and coincidentally, the boy was already friends with my friend (the one who asked me the question.) I asked her to create a group chat between us, and she agreed. Enough of that: ever since I had gotten the boy's number, (2 months ago) we have been texting each other a LOT. But the craziest part? I have never even spoken to him in real life yet! And we go to the same school! We pass by each other in the hallways occasionally, but it's usually my fault - I get too scared to even make eye contact with him. He knows what I look like, too. So basically, our relationship is online but not really... Someone help! How do I meet him in real life if I'm too scared to even look at him? We are both aware that we have NO classes together. He is always with his friends, too. The worst part? I have a huge crush on him, and he's basically a stranger!
The bottom line: I have been texting and snapping this boy from my school for 2 months but we still have not spoken or met in real life yet.
This is abnormal, right?! How do I even approach him in real life if he's always with his friends? If he's alone, I still get scared. Should I just go for it?

well whats the worst that could happen? I think u should just go talk to him. it would be the same as texting him but only ur standing in front of him. if u enjoy txting i dont see why anything could go wrong when u talk to him