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crush advice

so i like this guy but i rarely speak to him like weve had a lot lf convos but i wouldnt go up to him or anything like that and i havent talked to him in like 3 weeks, i snap him and stuff but idk why i send wall snaps bc for some reason i do that to the ppl ive liked idk if thats js me but anyway hes one of the "popular" guys so idk if that will even work out but hes never had a gf which surprises me cuz at parties hes always around them , what shoukd i do?
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Original post by Anonymous
so i like this guy but i rarely speak to him like weve had a lot lf convos but i wouldnt go up to him or anything like that and i havent talked to him in like 3 weeks, i snap him and stuff but idk why i send wall snaps bc for some reason i do that to the ppl ive liked idk if thats js me but anyway hes one of the "popular" guys so idk if that will even work out but hes never had a gf which surprises me cuz at parties hes always around them , what shoukd i do?

for now I would say just to be his friend. getting to know him better (and actually talking to him) might lead to stuff (u know what stuff i mean lol)

my crush is also a popular guy that i did 1 group project with at the beginning of yr12 (almost 1.5 years ago now!!) he hands out with the cool jock type smart dudes who play like 20 sports but r suuuuper smart at the same time. recently I decided that the only way for things to move forward is if I actually go talk to him, and so i did. He's a law student, and I asked him if he's looking for a place to intern after A-levels and suggested that he come and intern in the firm that i'm interning in. and guess what??? HE SAID YESSSS. so i'm txting him a lot now like A LOT and i feel that things are really moving forward with us!!

do keep in mind that this guy and i didn't talk for over a year (from our project collab in Aug last year till last week) also he's also never had a gf (cuz i got my friend to ask him lol.

sometimes guys need that little shove to tell them its ok hehe

good luck!! :hugs:
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Original post by ViviPanda
for now I would say just to be his friend. getting to know him better (and actually talking to him) might lead to stuff (u know what stuff i mean lol)
my crush is also a popular guy that i did 1 group project with at the beginning of yr12 (almost 1.5 years ago now!!) he hands out with the cool jock type smart dudes who play like 20 sports but r suuuuper smart at the same time. recently I decided that the only way for things to move forward is if I actually go talk to him, and so i did. He's a law student, and I asked him if he's looking for a place to intern after A-levels and suggested that he come and intern in the firm that i'm interning in. and guess what??? HE SAID YESSSS. so i'm txting him a lot now like A LOT and i feel that things are really moving forward with us!!
do keep in mind that this guy and i didn't talk for over a year (from our project collab in Aug last year till last week) also he's also never had a gf (cuz i got my friend to ask him lol.
sometimes guys need that little shove to tell them its ok hehe
good luck!! :hugs:

ahh yes hes one on those maths smart guys but we have 2 of the same a levels but not in the same classes so im not sure how to start a convo with him because then id have to go up to him and all his friends which would be so embarrasing but ive still got rest of y12 and y13😭. my bestfriends boyfriend is good friends with my crush so maybe that can help somehow
lmk how how it goes with that guy!!! and if you have any tips or advice pls tell me
Reply 3
Original post by Anonymous
ahh yes hes one on those maths smart guys but we have 2 of the same a levels but not in the same classes so im not sure how to start a convo with him because then id have to go up to him and all his friends which would be so embarrasing but ive still got rest of y12 and y13😭. my bestfriends boyfriend is good friends with my crush so maybe that can help somehow
lmk how how it goes with that guy!!! and if you have any tips or advice pls tell me

get this... this guy and i don't share ANY of the same classes. Im pretty sure he was reeeeally surprised when i txted him out of the blue.

All u need is confidence!!! try getting his no! Id prob be too scared to go up and talk to my crush when he's with his friends haha. they're kinda freaky!

Spontaneity is also a key, so maybe ask ur bff's bf to ask ur guy out for like a group outing? nothing fancy, just for lunch or something? ur guy would totally expect that, coming from one of his good friends. The tip is to make sure ur guy goes with it! 😜

[ok so funny story abt my crush's friend: so one of his friends was in our group when we did the project last year and im sorry to say that he was a real b*tch towards me and my friends. he thought so low of girls, and that really ****ed me off. so one day when Mark (this b*tchy dude) commented on how useless girls r i knee-ed him down there. u know what i mean. he started swearing at me and my crush (the adorable and protective guy he is) kept shouting at Mr. Doofus to stop while pulling him away. i think my crush had a sort of respect for me after that hahahaaaa]
Original post by Anonymous
so i like this guy but i rarely speak to him like weve had a lot lf convos but i wouldnt go up to him or anything like that and i havent talked to him in like 3 weeks, i snap him and stuff but idk why i send wall snaps bc for some reason i do that to the ppl ive liked idk if thats js me but anyway hes one of the "popular" guys so idk if that will even work out but hes never had a gf which surprises me cuz at parties hes always around them , what shoukd i do?

for starters you could stop sending wall snaps and send nice snaps of yourself and wait for hjim to respindddd
Original post by ViviPanda
for now I would say just to be his friend. getting to know him better (and actually talking to him) might lead to stuff (u know what stuff i mean lol)
my crush is also a popular guy that i did 1 group project with at the beginning of yr12 (almost 1.5 years ago now!!) he hands out with the cool jock type smart dudes who play like 20 sports but r suuuuper smart at the same time. recently I decided that the only way for things to move forward is if I actually go talk to him, and so i did. He's a law student, and I asked him if he's looking for a place to intern after A-levels and suggested that he come and intern in the firm that i'm interning in. and guess what??? HE SAID YESSSS. so i'm txting him a lot now like A LOT and i feel that things are really moving forward with us!!
do keep in mind that this guy and i didn't talk for over a year (from our project collab in Aug last year till last week) also he's also never had a gf (cuz i got my friend to ask him lol.
sometimes guys need that little shove to tell them its ok hehe
good luck!! :hugs:

hes gonna sue you
Original post by Anonymous
ahh yes hes one on those maths smart guys but we have 2 of the same a levels but not in the same classes so im not sure how to start a convo with him because then id have to go up to him and all his friends which would be so embarrasing but ive still got rest of y12 and y13😭. my bestfriends boyfriend is good friends with my crush so maybe that can help somehow
lmk how how it goes with that guy!!! and if you have any tips or advice pls tell me

u guys have the same subjects so ask for help or look for him when he is on his own and go up to him and talk

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