Can someone please explain what is going on with me and her?

Recently, I asked a young woman from my course out. She happily said yes, suggested a place, gave me her number.
I wrote her to arrange a time, and she responded the next morning, saying she couldn't make my suggestions and offering other dates and times. I asked her if we could do one of them.
This was yesterday and, since then, no response. We interacted well yesterday, and today she waved at me as I came in and I felt was friendly (although either she was nervous or had something on her mind).
I'm really nervous why she hasn't replied yet. My message was taking one of her suggestions, and offering a specific time.
And I'm also worried she won't reply tomorrow as well. I don't know what I should do. I could write her and slightly alter the meeting time, but then will worry if she will not respond to that, too.

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Anonymous #2

It may be worth saying ‘hey just double checking we’re still on for this date?’. If she doesn’t respond, she doesn’t respond, no point having sleepless nights when she may just be busy 🤷🏾*♂️

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Original post by Anonymous

It may be worth saying ‘hey just double checking we’re still on for this date?’. If she doesn’t respond, she doesn’t respond, no point having sleepless nights when she may just be busy 🤷🏾*♂️

Today she was 'suppressed' and was friendly, but I felt she was thinking about something- and directly told me she had a hard day today, and tomorrow will be even worse for her.
So if she doesn't respond, she could just be busy? I know she takes her degree VERY seriously, for a fact
I also know a girl who asked me not to be upset, warning me that sometimes she sees that, replies in her head, and then forgets to actually respond for a long time

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Original post by Anonymous

Today she was 'suppressed' and was friendly, but I felt she was thinking about something- and directly told me she had a hard day today, and tomorrow will be even worse for her.
So if she doesn't respond, she could just be busy? I know she takes her degree VERY seriously, for a fact
I also know a girl who asked me not to be upset, warning me that sometimes she sees that, replies in her head, and then forgets to actually respond for a long time

So if you are seeing this girl in person why aren't you asking about a date, instead of waiting for a reply to a message? That's absurd.

Can someone please explain what is going on with me and her?

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