question for the guys

what goes across a guys mind if they like a girl? ive always thought that cuz i have a group of friends that are boys and some of the stuff they say is horrible qnd i wanna know if you all think the same things
also what makes a girl attractive eg hair type style looks personality height ect

Reply 1

Rr600

Yes we're all the same, it's our biology and how our brain works. When we see an attractive girl the first thing we think is SEX

Reply 2

Meheraj

Nothing goes on my mind even if I like a girl as there is no point in living in fantasy if you don't have something in reality.

To be an attractive girl, one definitely has to have a cool personality and look first and foremost. That doesn't mean she has to be the most beautiful girl around. I neither care about the hair type nor the height.

Reply 3

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

I can't speak for all guys so I might not answer your question directly. But for some , when they like a girl the thoughts in their mind are elevated to a point beyond comprehension and expression. The thoughts lose sense. Not because they are stupid , but because they're just so intense and unusual. When your not with her , all you want to do is be with her. The eyes you scavenge a crowded room for are hers. The same eyes that spark a smile on your face that you just can't help. There's no moment that goes by where you wish to be right next to her even if you're doing nothing. That's roughly what seems to go across some guys minds. To answer your question about what makes a girl attractive , obviously looks matter but that can only keep one wanting to be around another person for so long. It's important to be yourself and express your individuallity while being a king , caring and genuine soul. Personally I find it attractive when a girl embraces her features like hair etc. It's very obvious as to whether somebody loves or dislikes themselves and their features so learn to love yourself before you expect someone to be attracted to you. Again I can't speak for all guys but for most it's very difficult to turn what's in your mind to words. Some guys will feel extremely overwhelmed or lost and maybe that's where they start being horrible in an attempt to dismiss and disregard their potential feelings for somebody instead of acknowledging it. Obviously this isn't the best way to go about it but it's the one that seems to make sense for most because it's perhaps not typical for guys to express such emotions or feelings. Guys aren't all horrible people. Everyone is human at the end of the day , prone to feeling the exact same things but with different forms of expression some more appropriate than others.

Hope I somewhat helped!