do you think this was being unfair?
i was crying in lesson time trying to hide it
but i went outside cause the teacher wanted to talk to me but i cried infront of her
but i got yelled just for wanting to go to safeguarding
but at the end of the lesson another student cried and there was no yelling and she was trying to be nice to her
and say 'dont get upset'
idk if it cause her friend was watching her or not
but it made me feel my feelings don't matter at all
but i went outside cause the teacher wanted to talk to me but i cried infront of her
but i got yelled just for wanting to go to safeguarding
but at the end of the lesson another student cried and there was no yelling and she was trying to be nice to her
and say 'dont get upset'
idk if it cause her friend was watching her or not
but it made me feel my feelings don't matter at all
Reply 1
When did this happen? You have a habit of bringing up incidents that happened several years ago.
Did you walk away from the teacher? What was actually said to you that you consider 'yelled at'?
We can't say if it's unfair when we don't have the full facts.
Did you walk away from the teacher? What was actually said to you that you consider 'yelled at'?
We can't say if it's unfair when we don't have the full facts.
Reply 2
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Original post by Surnia
When did this happen? You have a habit of bringing up incidents that happened several years ago.
Did you walk away from the teacher? What was actually said to you that you consider 'yelled at'?
We can't say if it's unfair when we don't have the full facts.
Did you walk away from the teacher? What was actually said to you that you consider 'yelled at'?
We can't say if it's unfair when we don't have the full facts.
no i didn't i ask the support teacher if i could go to the bathroom so as i was walking out of the class, she said something so i went to the bathroom but she followed me and i went to a stall and was about to cry
but she said something along the lines of ''you were the one who was staring at them....you must come back to class otherwise i will go to the head of the course to tell her to call your mom, your decision''
i then waited for her to leave and cried thinking she doesn't understand my pain
as she kept saying i stared at them but it wasn't my fault as she brought my name into a conversation that someone should sit next to me, the person who was being mean to me
i then went back to class, and spoke to the support teacher abt safeguarding so she told her and the teacher then said my name out loud to go outside of the class, so i did and i cried again
it was like me being upset was me giving her attitude she said ''why do you want to go safeguarding? do you think they will be there at this time, stay outside of the class for a bit''
at the end of the lesson she said ''are your parents waiting outside for you? i think you should not go to safeguarding instead go to parents''(trying to avoid me telling them i was being picked on other students and the teacher let them
Reply 3
You're at college. You are old enough to follow the rules; how do you think it would be if students walked in and out of class as they felt like it? The teacher was right to pick you up for that, so why are you crying about it?
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
(edited 8 months ago)
Reply 4
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Original post by Surnia
You're at college. You are old enough to follow the rules; how do you think it would be if students walked in and out of class as they felt like it? The teacher was right to pick you up for that, so why are you crying about it?
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
Reply 5
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Original post by Surnia
You're at college. You are old enough to follow the rules; how do you think it would be if students walked in and out of class as they felt like it? The teacher was right to pick you up for that, so why are you crying about it?
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
or does my feelings not matter i mean i couldn't stop crying not because she was yelling at me but i got memories from being bullied from secondary school
i was suffering and i didn't want to be bullied and i couldn't stop me from feeling targerted
i am more of a type of person who keeps things to myself
Reply 6
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Original post by Surnia
You're at college. You are old enough to follow the rules; how do you think it would be if students walked in and out of class as they felt like it? The teacher was right to pick you up for that, so why are you crying about it?
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
Reply 7
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Original post by Surnia
You're at college. You are old enough to follow the rules; how do you think it would be if students walked in and out of class as they felt like it? The teacher was right to pick you up for that, so why are you crying about it?
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
You've changed your story and there's nothing here about being yelled at. You need to speak with your parents and get help to sort things out. You can't keep on like this.
the teacher lets the students go to the toilet but when i go it is a big problem she doesn't follow them when they go
i understand what you mean by that so it is fair then for me to cry and feel embarrassed and targeted
Reply 8
Original post by luvsunsets
i did follow the rules as i did ask before i leave the classroom and i know she was right
You didn't ask the teacher about leaving class, but you asked a support teacher about leaving class.
You were crying in the lesson, but you cried in the bathroom.
You were staring at people, but you were being bullied because of someone who was going to sit next to you.
The teacher yelled at you, but she 'said' everything to you.
No idea what's going on here, other than to say read my advice again.
Reply 9
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Original post by Surnia
You didn't ask the teacher about leaving class, but you asked a support teacher about leaving class.
You were crying in the lesson, but you cried in the bathroom.
You were staring at people, but you were being bullied because of someone who was going to sit next to you.
The teacher yelled at you, but she 'said' everything to you.
No idea what's going on here, other than to say read my advice again.
You were crying in the lesson, but you cried in the bathroom.
You were staring at people, but you were being bullied because of someone who was going to sit next to you.
The teacher yelled at you, but she 'said' everything to you.
No idea what's going on here, other than to say read my advice again.
first i cried in the bathroom but i was forced to go into the class otherwise i would been snitched on and they would call my parents
they were looking at me in the first place cause the teacher said my name loudly i looked at them a bit
she yelled cause she thought i was being mean but the girls were saying mean things but she didn't think it was them
Reply 10
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Original post by Surnia
You didn't ask the teacher about leaving class, but you asked a support teacher about leaving class.
You were crying in the lesson, but you cried in the bathroom.
You were staring at people, but you were being bullied because of someone who was going to sit next to you.
The teacher yelled at you, but she 'said' everything to you.
No idea what's going on here, other than to say read my advice again.
You were crying in the lesson, but you cried in the bathroom.
You were staring at people, but you were being bullied because of someone who was going to sit next to you.
The teacher yelled at you, but she 'said' everything to you.
No idea what's going on here, other than to say read my advice again.
Reply 11
Original post by luvsunsets
yes because she is a member of staff and the teacher was busy talking to another student and i couldn't wait - this is allowed in class cause she could tell her afterwards
first i cried in the bathroom but i was forced to go into the class otherwise i would been snitched on and they would call my parents
they were looking at me in the first place cause the teacher said my name loudly i looked at them a bit
she yelled cause she thought i was being mean but the girls were saying mean things but she didn't think it was them
first i cried in the bathroom but i was forced to go into the class otherwise i would been snitched on and they would call my parents
they were looking at me in the first place cause the teacher said my name loudly i looked at them a bit
she yelled cause she thought i was being mean but the girls were saying mean things but she didn't think it was them
"Saying mean things"? You're 17. Practise being an adult and ignore childish behaviour.
Reply 12
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Original post by ageshallnot
"Saying mean things"? You're 17. Practise being an adult and ignore childish behaviour.
i am sensitive
Reply 13
Original post by luvsunsets
sorry i can't been bullied my whole life
i am sensitive
i am sensitive
My point exactly.
Reply 14
Original post by luvsunsets
yes because she is a member of staff and the teacher was busy talking to another student and i couldn't wait - this is allowed in class cause she could tell her afterwards
first i cried in the bathroom but i was forced to go into the class otherwise i would been snitched on and they would call my parents
they were looking at me in the first place cause the teacher said my name loudly i looked at them a bit
she yelled cause she thought i was being mean but the girls were saying mean things but she didn't think it was them
first i cried in the bathroom but i was forced to go into the class otherwise i would been snitched on and they would call my parents
they were looking at me in the first place cause the teacher said my name loudly i looked at them a bit
she yelled cause she thought i was being mean but the girls were saying mean things but she didn't think it was them
But there's nothing about the teacher yelling at you, everything you describe was as being 'said'. If she's saying your name, probably it's to get your attention, as you seem to concentrate on other people rather than class. What were these girls saying that was mean?
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