I'm in a pickle

I'm a mature student, living in London and will be applying to university this year. I work part-time, making around £1000/month and live with my two cousins. To make a long story short, one of my cousins is emotionally abusive and an absolute nightmare to live with. I've considered moving out, but it would be quite expensive to live alone and I don't have anyone else to share a flat with. I won't be able to increase my working hours since I will be sitting my A level next year. What should I do?

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I'm a mature student, living in London and will be applying to university this year. I work part-time, making around £1000/month and live with my two cousins. To make a long story short, one of my cousins is emotionally abusive and an absolute nightmare to live with. I've considered moving out, but it would be quite expensive to live alone and I don't have anyone else to share a flat with. I won't be able to increase my working hours since I will be sitting my A level next year. What should I do?

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Student Accommodation: When you apply to uni, see if there’s student accommodation available. Sometimes they offer cheaper living options, even for mature students. Could be a lifesaver!

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Flat Sharing Websites: Check out flat sharing websites or apps—there are always other mature students or professionals looking for roomies. You might find someone cool to live with.

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Subsidies and Grants: Look into whether you qualify for any subsidies, grants, or bursaries that can help with living costs. Some universities and organizations offer financial assistance for students in tough situations.

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Talk to a Counselor: You could get advice from a student counselor or support service. They might have suggestions or resources you haven’t thought of.

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Temporary Solutions: If moving out isn’t possible right now, try to create boundaries and find safe spaces for yourself. Spend more time at libraries or study spaces to get some peace.

Your well-being is super important, especially while you’re studying. Taking steps to find a supportive environment will help you thrive. Hang in there, and remember, there’s support out there for you. 🌟

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Original post by StudentAC

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Student Accommodation: When you apply to uni, see if there’s student accommodation available. Sometimes they offer cheaper living options, even for mature students. Could be a lifesaver!

•

Flat Sharing Websites: Check out flat sharing websites or apps—there are always other mature students or professionals looking for roomies. You might find someone cool to live with.

•

Subsidies and Grants: Look into whether you qualify for any subsidies, grants, or bursaries that can help with living costs. Some universities and organizations offer financial assistance for students in tough situations.

•

Talk to a Counselor: You could get advice from a student counselor or support service. They might have suggestions or resources you haven’t thought of.

•

Temporary Solutions: If moving out isn’t possible right now, try to create boundaries and find safe spaces for yourself. Spend more time at libraries or study spaces to get some peace.

Your well-being is super important, especially while you’re studying. Taking steps to find a supportive environment will help you thrive. Hang in there, and remember, there’s support out there for you. 🌟

Thank you so much for your response. I don't start uni until next year, and so I won't be eligible for bursaries or student accommodation yet. I think my best option right now would be to look for someone to share a flat with. And yeah I'll probably spend less time at home in the meantime. Fingers crossed! Thanks again for the advice

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