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Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

Reply 1

EllieDaysx

Do you say this because your not attracted to the girl your dating?

Reply 2

anosmianAcrimony

Do you mean attractED to? The women you are attractIVE to are not out of your league, by definition.

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Reply 3

Rr600

Original post by Anonymous

Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

Well ugly men can't have the women they like, so they have to lower their expectations

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

You might be delusional, lowkey. Good looking men don't go out with below-average looking women, so the woman you're with is probably in your league. Lower your expectations

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

Nope. If you’re a Rizzler like me, you go as a 14M with 19F. Ez.

Reply 6

Kallisto

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Original post by Anonymous

Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

Men with an enormous self-confidence don't waste such a thought. And I know some. Therefore this statement seems to be a rumour.

(edited 8 months ago)

Reply 7

theunknown234534

Original post by Anonymous

Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

is it because you think those women are in an relationship already so u dont try just admire from a distant

Reply 8

Anonymous #2

Original post by Anonymous

Nope. If you’re a Rizzler like me, you go as a 14M with 19F. Ez.

thats called being groomed

Reply 9

Anonymous #3

Original post by Anonymous

thats called being groomed

I have a feeling that whoever posted that is joking

Reply 10

Old Skool Freak

Original post by Anonymous

I have a feeling that whoever posted that is joking

Well you clearly know whether they were joking or not, because it was blatantly YOU who posted it :p:

Reply 11

Crimsonglow

Original post by Anonymous

Is it true most of us men go with women we are not attractive to because the women we are attractive to are out of our league?

I guess only men can answer this truly. But in general it could be said of both genders. Personally I think it's a confidence issue and you shouldn't think of someone in or out of your league. Perception of beauty is very subjective anyways. And attractiveness deeper than just looks.

Reply 12

Old Skool Freak

Original post by Crimsonglow

In theory, I agree with you... but the problem with that philosophy is that it can create unrealistic expectations for some people. For example, in the "manosphere", it's a common held belief that a man is entitled to have sex with women he is attracted to... and they believe it's as much as a fundamental human right as having a clean food source and / or somewhere warm and safe to live. It's one of the reasons incels believe they are victims and why they resent "Chad" and "Stacy" so much.

I agree that self-confidence is the key, but I also think it's important to have a realistic idea of how attractive / desirable you are, yourself (N.B. I guess you can include money, power, personality / character and any other assets you think you have; when you combine all these elements, some people call this your "Social Market Value"). Still, academic studies have shown that people are subconsciously attracted to those who they perceive are at a same or similar level of attractiveness as themselves (The Matching Hypothesis, Brown (1986)). For sure, from some guys P.O.V. it may be nice to have the "Trophy girlfriend" who is far more attractive than himself, but from a girls P.O.V. she will also think how will they look together as a couple?... and no one would want to be seen with someone who illustrates all their own physical flaws (especially considering how catty / b***hy girls can be).