Struggling to get married (20 year old muslim girl)

I'm 20 years old and I'm wanting to get married, through my own choice. I go to university and study medicine, but its in a different city than where I live, so I have to use uni accommodation. I've been looking to get married, but everyone seems to be rejecting me. I have no idea why, and then I had the thought, maybe its because I am wanting to go into medicine? Is that something men take into account when finding a spouse? Bc if I did go into medicine, then I would have to work full time and a lot of hours.
Thanks

My main advice is to make dua for marriage
i am sure good a good man will appreciate you having a good education and job, there is no rush 🫶🫶

Is anyone able to help me?

I'm 20 years old and I'm wanting to get married, through my own choice. I go to university and study medicine, but its in a different city than where I live, so I have to use uni accommodation. I've been looking to get married, but everyone seems to be rejecting me. I have no idea why, and then I had the thought, maybe its because I am wanting to go into medicine? Is that something men take into account when finding a spouse? Bc if I did go into medicine, then I would have to work full time and a lot of hours.
Thanks

Ma-sha-Allah. Getting married early is suggested as well in Islam, but I will suggest you take your time, find the right person for you and then make a decision because you'll most probably spend the rest of your life with that individual. So, you shouldn't be in a rush or desperate to get married. Most of the time we make wrong decisions when we are in a hurry as we don't get the time to think about the pros and cons of the situation we're going to face. Pray to Allah to help you find the right person for you at the right moment (not necessarily it has to be now or later on but the right moment for you). He'll definitely give you signs. Anyway, have you tried to figure out why those people rejected you? Definitely, all of them didn't reject you because you're studying medicine or you'll work full-time. There could be other reasons too.

I’m pretty sure that any decent guy who is worth marrying wouldn’t be bothered by you studying medicine. In fact it would be the opposite since a well educated man who has the potential to be a good spouse would find you studying medicine to be a good quality and something he would admire about you.

You are only 20 so your age group guys will not be ready to get married, no proper job or house or too young.
Doesnt mean there’s something wrong with you, you just haven’t found the right guy at the right time.

I'm 20 years old and I'm wanting to get married, through my own choice. I go to university and study medicine, but its in a different city than where I live, so I have to use uni accommodation. I've been looking to get married, but everyone seems to be rejecting me. I have no idea why, and then I had the thought, maybe its because I am wanting to go into medicine? Is that something men take into account when finding a spouse? Bc if I did go into medicine, then I would have to work full time and a lot of hours.
Thanks

I'm 20 years old and I'm wanting to get married, through my own choice. I go to university and study medicine, but its in a different city than where I live, so I have to use uni accommodation. I've been looking to get married, but everyone seems to be rejecting me. I have no idea why, and then I had the thought, maybe its because I am wanting to go into medicine? Is that something men take into account when finding a spouse? Bc if I did go into medicine, then I would have to work full time and a lot of hours.
Thanks

Students or young men in general like sex and they prefer to be free, getting married would mean no sex with any other woman. We only live once so we want to have fun whilst we're young. If religion is backwards it's not our problem

Brother, that is the problem with having no religion. You are free to do all these disgusting things and all it ends up in is depression. I don't want to be with 10 different guys having sex with 10 ppl in one night. I just want to stay loyal with one man and stay with him for the rest of our lives. And I want to stick to Islamic values, because that's where u ultimately find peace.

no one is forcing you have sex with 10 men. you asked a question about why no one was interested in marrying you and you got someone giving you their perspective. what's the rush with wanting to get married aged 20, anyway?

Brother, that is the problem with having no religion. You are free to do all these disgusting things and all it ends up in is depression. I don't want to be with 10 different guys having sex with 10 ppl in one night. I just want to stay loyal with one man and stay with him for the rest of our lives. And I want to stick to Islamic values, because that's where u ultimately find peace.

Brother, that is the problem with having no religion. You are free to do all these disgusting things and all it ends up in is depression. I don't want to be with 10 different guys having sex with 10 ppl in one night. I just want to stay loyal with one man and stay with him for the rest of our lives. And I want to stick to Islamic values, because that's where u ultimately find peace.

Brother, that is the problem with having no religion. You are free to do all these disgusting things and all it ends up in is depression. I don't want to be with 10 different guys having sex with 10 ppl in one night. I just want to stay loyal with one man and stay with him for the rest of our lives. And I want to stick to Islamic values, because that's where u ultimately find peace.

You asked why guys don't want to get married at 20, I gave you an honest answer. All guys I know want to be free and have fun whilst they're young, they would be depressed if they had to be married. You should understand that males have a much bigger sex drive than women, your perspective isn't the same of a young guy whose hormones are exploding. Why do you think porn sites are so popular?