How can I make a good impression at my cousins funeral

My cousins funeral is coming up and i want to make a good impression on the other side of the family. I already have a nice outfit ready for next week but I am thinking of other ways i can stand out from the crowd. does anyone have any ideas? nothing that screams i am looking for attention or will give a bad impression i just want a few ideas that won't make me look like a try hard if you get me.

i have a bad history of talking about myself too much and it comes across as rude (apparently... i think they just don't like me so will moan about anything i do) i have not seen them all in a long time and i am worrying that they will all still dislike me ):

Reply 1

Trinculo

4/10. Not a great try.

Reply 2

luvsunsets

Original post by dentalhygiene

My cousins funeral is coming up and i want to make a good impression on the other side of the family. I already have a nice outfit ready for next week but I am thinking of other ways i can stand out from the crowd. does anyone have any ideas? nothing that screams i am looking for attention or will give a bad impression i just want a few ideas that won't make me look like a try hard if you get me.
i have a bad history of talking about myself too much and it comes across as rude (apparently... i think they just don't like me so will moan about anything i do) i have not seen them all in a long time and i am worrying that they will all still dislike me ):

as someone who has went to some funerals at a young age i feel try to see that it is about your cousin has lost their life and try to not pay too much attention to yourself, as there maybe some individuals who will cry a lot
or try to comfort those around you as they also are going through pain
maybe give them space to have time to have empathy towards your cousin
also remember that even if your cousin has died that their soul has gone to the next life and that they maybe able to see what is happening i think