how can i be nice to bullies?
i feel i have been bullied too much and i feel like they deserve the happiness <3
this may seem really bad as i get too much pain
but i also feel like why should i hate them when we never know what people are going through
this may seem really bad as i get too much pain
but i also feel like why should i hate them when we never know what people are going through
Honestly, I would just leave them alone. They might very well have some issues they're going through, but if they are causing you harm then you're not doing yourself any favours by approaching them.
You're not a trained psychologist (presumably) so just steer clear of them.
You're not a trained psychologist (presumably) so just steer clear of them.
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by PinkMobilePhoneHonestly, I would just leave them alone. They might very well have some issues they're going through, but if they are causing you harm then you're not doing yourself any favours by approaching them.
You're not a trained psychologist (presumably) so just steer clear of them.
You're not a trained psychologist (presumably) so just steer clear of them.
but i will do what you have said
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by luvsunsetsyeah true but i have this feeling that it makes them hate them like i want to help as many people as i can even if it is allowing bullies to be happy or wanting to know that they hurt me and still have a chance and making things better as they don't know me well but i feel, i maybe making them feel insecure about themselves
but i will do what you have said
but i will do what you have said
It's very sweet of you, but it could very easily backfire on you. Are you at school? If so, raise your concerns with a member of staff (you should report bullying anyway) and tell them that you suspect there may be a deeper issue that needs looking into.
Pink summarised this pretty well - but one thing I want to highlight is the need to realise how bullying is wrong and shouldn’t be placed in a sympathetic perspective. You should most definitely raise this as a concern to someone with authority!
I wish you all the best, stay safe.
I wish you all the best, stay safe.
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by PinkMobilePhoneIt's very sweet of you, but it could very easily backfire on you. Are you at school? If so, raise your concerns with a member of staff (you should report bullying anyway) and tell them that you suspect there may be a deeper issue that needs looking into.
i go to college and it is my 2nd year repeating the same course
last year no one ever bullied me but this year there is different students and i don't know anyone
i have told safeguarding and reception but one of the girl's friend came to me with her and said did you snitch on her?
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by jelllyfiiishPink summarised this pretty well - but one thing I want to highlight is the need to realise how bullying is wrong and shouldn’t be placed in a sympathetic perspective. You should most definitely raise this as a concern to someone with authority!
I wish you all the best, stay safe.
I wish you all the best, stay safe.
and thank you
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by luvsunsetsi struggle with mental health and feel every time i go to class i get bullied and it never stops
i go to college and it is my 2nd year repeating the same course
last year no one ever bullied me but this year there is different students and i don't know anyone
i have told safeguarding and reception but one of the girl's friend came to me with her and said did you snitch on her?
i go to college and it is my 2nd year repeating the same course
last year no one ever bullied me but this year there is different students and i don't know anyone
i have told safeguarding and reception but one of the girl's friend came to me with her and said did you snitch on her?
Listen to them, you might somewhere now. Also, forget bad memories, memories that in NO WAY shift your future.
I thought about the same idea as your question, so I did that. I got MOCKED, I got THROWN ABOUT, they just constantly HATED on me. But some of my opps back then actually became my best friends as of now. But I got lucky then because a) they were in my class, funneh lot b) Before I was annoying, got chill then they respec c) I let things smoothen down before approaching them. We hated each other back then, let it cool down for 2.5 years, then started building bonds with em.
That's how ya do it. Stop doubting, stop feelin like a bug. You do this everyday and your problem is you don't want to listen to anyone AT ALL. So start listenin, please
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