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Just a bit of ranting

So, whenever I ask my parents if I’m attractive they’re like “yup”…but I mean they’re my parents so I mean they can’t really lie to me. It’s not like I would have a big issue with people not finding me attractive I’m pretty happy with how I am personally. I guess for me it’s just more of a logical thing I guess…? Even if someone told me I wasn’t attractive I would be fine with it I guess I just want to know how people view me? I’ve dated someone before (a girl, we broke up..we’re best friends now) and I never asked that person whether I’m physically attractive. I don’t really get much attention from guys (I’m a female by the way), I had a guy who I used to be friends with told me that I used to be his favorite friend…? Like, what am I supposed to interpret that as..It was like when I was 10 or something. Also this younger class men (he’s a year below me) used to bother me, when I was walking to my classes he and his friend would come on either side of us and say stuff like “oh, if you can’t tell we’re really interested in you” and he would make signs behind my back (like mewing, if you know what that is) it just kinda set me off. And it wasn't in a funny either it was just kinda…creepy. And eventually I ended up telling him and telling him to stop and he did thankfully but he just left a bad taste in my mouth I guess, anyways back on topic. I’m definitely not the societal norm for “attractive”, I’m very like….low maintenance. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m not hating on anyone who fits the societal norm for pretty-I have friends like that and you guys are pretty cool)
(edited 1 year ago)

Reply 1

how are we supposed to answer the titular question without any context of your features... i mean uhh idk if u meant to ask a question or js post a rant so yea

Reply 2

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by Anonymous
how are we supposed to answer the titular question without any context of your features... i mean uhh idk if u meant to ask a question or js post a rant so yea

Ya I don’t know like…it was a bit of ranting I suppose, sorry about that.

Reply 3

Are you good company? Are you a caring personality? If so, you're attractive.

Reply 4

Original post
by Rollybugg
So, whenever I ask my parents if I’m attractive they’re like “yup”…but I mean they’re my parents so I mean they can’t really lie to me. It’s not like I would have a big issue with people not finding me attractive I’m pretty happy with how I am personally. I guess for me it’s just more of a logical thing I guess…? Even if someone told me I wasn’t attractive I would be fine with it I guess I just want to know how people view me? I’ve dated someone before (a girl, we broke up..we’re best friends now) and I never asked that person whether I’m physically attractive. I don’t really get much attention from guys (I’m a female by the way), I had a guy who I used to be friends with told me that I used to be his favorite friend…? Like, what am I supposed to interpret that as..It was like when I was 10 or something. Also this younger class men (he’s a year below me) used to bother me, when I was walking to my classes he and his friend would come on either side of us and say stuff like “oh, if you can’t tell we’re really interested in you” and he would make signs behind my back (like mewing, if you know what that is) it just kinda set me off. And it wasn't in a funny either it was just kinda…creepy. And eventually I ended up telling him and telling him to stop and he did thankfully but he just left a bad taste in my mouth I guess, anyways back on topic. I’m definitely not the societal norm for “attractive”, I’m very like….low maintenance. (Don’t get me wrong, I’m not hating on anyone who fits the societal norm for pretty-I have friends like that and you guys are pretty cool)

🙁 ahhhh

Reply 5

Good luck! :laugh: Here's a pizza :wink: :pizza:

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