My friend mad a rude comment about me
Me and my two others friends was at a party. We going to name them red and blue. Me and red starting twerking together. I asked blue did I dance good. Okay so I don’t normally twerk in public, they know this. So I’m kinda like insecure about it. So anyways she answers the question and said yeah but red did it better. It’s been like three days and I’m still mad about it because why would blue say that. It literally ruined my whole night
Says more about you than your friend; you asked, she answered. Why can't you accept that it was a passing comment and maybe she was being honest? There's always going to be people that can do things better than you; higher grades, running faster, telling funnier jokes, twerking...
It's not something to get hung up on.
It's not something to get hung up on.
Original post by Surnia
Says more about you than your friend; you asked, she answered. Why can't you accept that it was a passing comment and maybe she was being honest? There's always going to be people that can do things better than you; higher grades, running faster, telling funnier jokes, twerking...
It's not something to get hung up on.
It's not something to get hung up on.
Yes I know that but I never asked did I twerk better then her
Original post by Anonymous
Yes I know that but I never asked did I twerk better then her
You asked about your dancing. Your twerking was part of that.
If you didn’t want a review that made you self conscious, you shouldn’t have asked for one.
Original post by Admit-One
You asked about your dancing. Your twerking was part of that.
If you didn’t want a review that made you self conscious, you shouldn’t have asked for one.
If you didn’t want a review that made you self conscious, you shouldn’t have asked for one.
I get where you are coming from but we been friends for years so I did not expect her to say out loud in front of everyone that my other friend twerked better when I never asked Their was no point in adding that comment
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Original post by Anonymous
I get where you are coming from but we been friends for years so I did not expect her to say out loud in front of everyone that my other friend twerked better when I never asked Their was no point in adding that comment
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It's just conversational. Everybody does this, adding a bit more to a yes or no comment; you'll have done it when someone asks and you'll do it again in future. It's not like she's ruined your life by announcing in front of work colleagues that you did OK on a project, but someone else did it better.
It's nothing something to fall out over, either. If this is the worst you can say about her, she sounds like a good friend!
Original post by Anonymous
I get where you are coming from but we been friends for years so I did not expect her to say out loud in front of everyone that my other friend twerked better when I never asked Their was no point in adding that comment
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If you have been good friends for years then surely her coment comes across as a harmless bit of ribbing? She didn't lay into you. She jokingly said that your friend was twerking better. I don't think it's going to change the trajectory of your life.
I think most people would have laughed and said something like "well I'm still a beginner!".
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