Can ugly girls one day find partners?

I'm very unattractive. I have glasses, a bad hair line (even though i'm a girl) I'm kind of chubby, I am very shy, I'm not very smart and I have no social skills. I know I can work on some of those things to make me look better, but I just worry that because I look like a nerd, even when I'm not one, I worry no guy will ever like me. I had no friends in school and I haven't even spoken to a boy properly since I was like 11 (a decade ago). I just want at least a few boys to notice me so I know there is a chance for a boy to want to start a family with me one day. It's my dream to have children, (the younger the better) and I know I can have children without a guy, but I want the stereotypical experience, ya'know. Just wondered if I should just give up?

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by Anonymous

I'm very unattractive. I have glasses, a bad hair line (even though i'm a girl) I'm kind of chubby, I am very shy, I'm not very smart and I have no social skills. I know I can work on some of those things to make me look better, but I just worry that because I look like a nerd, even when I'm not one, I worry no guy will ever like me. I had no friends in school and I haven't even spoken to a boy properly since I was like 11 (a decade ago). I just want at least a few boys to notice me so I know there is a chance for a boy to want to start a family with me one day. It's my dream to have children, (the younger the better) and I know I can have children without a guy, but I want the stereotypical experience, ya'know. Just wondered if I should just give up?

I assume you are 21 from the numbers you gave? Or at least, you are very very young. I don't have any experience at all with dating guys but i know that you should want to have a guy who loves you fir who you are not you looks. That's the kind of person to have kids with, not someone who dates you for your looks. I also know that when someone loves you, you are immediately one of the most pretty people to exist. Again , youre only young and i'm sure youll find someone someday who gives you the love you deserve 🥰🥰🥰🥰

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Zarek

21

Don’t brand yourself as ugly, it’s self defeating and unduly negative. It’s only the very attractive, that are in the minority, where it lands on a plate, and even they have their own angst. Everyone else was to work hard to find a decent partner. Play to strengths and work on weaknesses, keep at it and there is someone for everybody. I suggest to find a decent counsellor to talk things through with, the right person can really help get things in perspective

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Anonymous #3

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by Anonymous

I'm very unattractive. I have glasses, a bad hair line (even though i'm a girl) I'm kind of chubby, I am very shy, I'm not very smart and I have no social skills. I know I can work on some of those things to make me look better, but I just worry that because I look like a nerd, even when I'm not one, I worry no guy will ever like me. I had no friends in school and I haven't even spoken to a boy properly since I was like 11 (a decade ago). I just want at least a few boys to notice me so I know there is a chance for a boy to want to start a family with me one day. It's my dream to have children, (the younger the better) and I know I can have children without a guy, but I want the stereotypical experience, ya'know. Just wondered if I should just give up?

You are 21 and believe me when you are 50 you will look back at pictures of yourself and realise how attractive you were Get a good haircut,contact lenses of glasses that really suit you and lose a bit of weight those are within your control.
Do some hobbies that involve mixed groups,volunteering is a good way to meet people.Do you not meet boys at work or uni?Honestly you have plenty of time so stop being so hard on yourself.

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