There is abundant social life at Oxford. My daughter is half way through her first term at Oxford and is working very hard, but also partying, making friends, and pursuing a sport. Her experience so far seems not dissimilar to mine many decades ago (although I have still never set eyes on my college's sports ground, which is rumoured to be somewhere in Summertown). Oxford is academically and socially intense, and the longer vacations are a time to rest and reflect, unless you are living out of college in a 52 week rental, in which case, party on, Wayne.