Wtf do I reply to this message from a girl?
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
You don't?
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
I'm a girl and lemme tell u something she's just playing u BLOCK HER IGNORE HER EXISTANCE cuz she is just playing around with you she don't like u.😐️
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Truth of the matter is if someone's into you they will make it clear.
Can’t help but think that you missed the chance to flirt a bit following “wanna make it more interesting?”.
OP as a woman myself....
You were playing your cards right until you messaged her again after being ignored.
She is disrespectful.
You were playing your cards right until you messaged her again after being ignored.
She is disrespectful.
I love women that put no effort into texting. It's an indication they have other stuff going on in their life apart from texting.
As a general guideline, you should avoid sending the sort of messages your grandmother would send.
Therefore no "how was your weekend?" type messages.
Much better instead is to tease her about something she said she'd do during her week-end.
EG I trust you performed your duties and got your best friend totally wasted on her birthday night out on Saturday?
In response to her "wanna make it more interesting?" message you should have picked up the phone and arranged something if you were available.
If you weren't available you should have teased her.
EG You had a boring weekend? That's not the sort of thing you should be telling me if you want me to think you're a cool chick in order to increase the chances of getting inside my knickers.
Don't send her "no worries" messages. Send her something silly and off the wall instead. EG you singing the line to a silly pop song as a voicemail.
Don't make excuses for her. Have the vibe that you're prepared to walk away from her if you're not right for each other.
Don't put yourself down by conveying that you have a boring life. Don't tell her that all you did all week-end was go to the gym.
There's a few ways you could reply to her "Good boy" message.
EG Woof woof.
EG Good boy? You don't know the half of it! Or Good boy? Nah, not really.
EG I prefer your message backwards. "Yob do Og!"
As a general guideline, you should avoid sending the sort of messages your grandmother would send.
Therefore no "how was your weekend?" type messages.
Much better instead is to tease her about something she said she'd do during her week-end.
EG I trust you performed your duties and got your best friend totally wasted on her birthday night out on Saturday?
In response to her "wanna make it more interesting?" message you should have picked up the phone and arranged something if you were available.
If you weren't available you should have teased her.
EG You had a boring weekend? That's not the sort of thing you should be telling me if you want me to think you're a cool chick in order to increase the chances of getting inside my knickers.
Don't send her "no worries" messages. Send her something silly and off the wall instead. EG you singing the line to a silly pop song as a voicemail.
Don't make excuses for her. Have the vibe that you're prepared to walk away from her if you're not right for each other.
Don't put yourself down by conveying that you have a boring life. Don't tell her that all you did all week-end was go to the gym.
There's a few ways you could reply to her "Good boy" message.
EG Woof woof.
EG Good boy? You don't know the half of it! Or Good boy? Nah, not really.
EG I prefer your message backwards. "Yob do Og!"
(edited 3 weeks ago)
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
I'd say she really isnt interested and doesn't see why you should invite her out at all. Just ignore her or ask her again in a few weeks and then if she leaves you on read again then unfriend her, don't let her mess you around.
Out of 132 people who participated, 89% (118 people) voted that texting back quickly is a TURN-ON and 11% (14 people) voted TURN-OFF. One voter let me know she tapped “off” by accident so these results are slightly skewed, but still — the results are clearly in favor of texting back fast being a turn on.
That’s what it said on google
That’s what it said on google
Original post by ameliawarwicker
Out of 132 people who participated, 89% (118 people) voted that texting back quickly is a TURN-ON and 11% (14 people) voted TURN-OFF. One voter let me know she tapped “off” by accident so these results are slightly skewed, but still — the results are clearly in favor of texting back fast being a turn on.
That’s what it said on google
That’s what it said on google
Is this based on UK citizens?
Original post by Anonymous
Honestly some girls really **** me off how they put no effort into texting but ah well. She’s really attractive and I want to try my luck so hoping for help on what I should reply:
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
Me: hey, how was your weekend?
Her: boring, wanna make it more interesting?
Me: sure how about we go out and grab some food now I know a cool restaurant we can go to?
(… she doesn’t reply and left me on read.. Weekend is now over so I text her again…)
Me: no worries, if that was too last minute for you we can do it another time, I ended up just going to the gym instead
Her: good boy
… like wtf do I even reply to this? Any advice? Is she “shit testing” me to test if I’m worth her time? Any ideas what to respond? Thanks
You don't reply - you missed your chance and she's written you off.
'do you want to make it more interesting' was a come on - you missed it.
When you replied with something as straight as going to the gym, she responded patronizingly 'good boy'.
You missed your chance, move on.
You’re better off without her OP
Original post by nonchalant-
Is this based on UK citizens?
Dunno it was on google
Women who act this way can be very temperamental. I'd forget about her.
It depends what you're after though. If you're looking for a relationship with some consistency to it - then she doesn't sound like the type. If you're looking for 'pump & dump' action then probably yes. I still wouldn't recommend, but at least now you know the risks.
It depends what you're after though. If you're looking for a relationship with some consistency to it - then she doesn't sound like the type. If you're looking for 'pump & dump' action then probably yes. I still wouldn't recommend, but at least now you know the risks.
I would forget about them
Original post by toppby55
I'd say she really isnt interested and doesn't see why you should invite her out at all. Just ignore her or ask her again in a few weeks and then if she leaves you on read again then unfriend her, don't let her mess you around.
exactly.
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