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Sign of interest?

I have a big crush...she knows i like her and she shows me the countries she is going to visit.She told me when she is traveling with her friends on vacation.Is she trying to hint that to stay tuned as she is thinking maybe of inviting me in the future?

She can be mild flirty/very shy/back and forth/
Sounds like she's just making conversation. You've called her a crush, not a friend, so why would she invite you on holiday with her?
It is a massive leap of logic to think that someone who knows you like her is hinting at going on holiday with you because she's talking about her travel plans. That really is just a fantasy, and I agree that she is just making conversation. I'd suggest getting to know her better and/or actually asking her out on a date before you start thinking about going abroad with her.
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Original post by Surnia
Sounds like she's just making conversation. You've called her a crush, not a friend, so why would she invite you on holiday with her?


Thanks.

True,she likes me in a way and seems like a good sign that im not being put in with her freinds.I know that crushes go to coffee first etc..but she has also showed me places she was thinking of eating before too....
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Original post by Crazy Jamie
It is a massive leap of logic to think that someone who knows you like her is hinting at going on holiday with you because she's talking about her travel plans. That really is just a fantasy, and I agree that she is just making conversation. I'd suggest getting to know her better and/or actually asking her out on a date before you start thinking about going abroad with her.


Hi.I have asked her out before and she wanted us to arrange it online,she blushed but that never happened... so i cant keep asking so i have to find that right moment since i asked couple of months,back.She is shy and confusing but she sometimes or recently kept me posted on what she was visiting when out of town.Regards.
Original post by Anonymous
Hi.I have asked her out before and she wanted us to arrange it online,she blushed but that never happened... so i cant keep asking so i have to find that right moment since i asked couple of months,back.She is shy and confusing but she sometimes or recently kept me posted on what she was visiting when out of town.Regards.

Ok. So she either doesn't have the interest or confidence to follow through arranging a date with you, but you think she has the interest or confidence to hint about inviting you on holiday? As I say, it's not realistic. I agree that you shouldn't just keep asking if you're rejected, but it doesn't sound like you were. If it's something that has been left unresolved, bring it back up and see what she says. If you have enough time with her to talk travel plans, you have enough time to revisit asking her out.
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Original post by Crazy Jamie
Ok. So she either doesn't have the interest or confidence to follow through arranging a date with you, but you think she has the interest or confidence to hint about inviting you on holiday? As I say, it's not realistic. I agree that you shouldn't just keep asking if you're rejected, but it doesn't sound like you were. If it's something that has been left unresolved, bring it back up and see what she says. If you have enough time with her to talk travel plans, you have enough time to revisit asking her out.


Thankyou for the input Jamie!

I want to ask her out this Christmas again when she is likely free and not travelling and would want to take her to a cafe.She has showed me a couple of times online places she is looking at and sometimes with our history she is strange in a good way..she acts like a freind..acts like a crush then she has acted like a girlfriend before.I don't know if is it where we are both shy and we haven't told each other that we like each other..or I like her...I guess time will tell.
Original post by Jonn87
Thankyou for the input Jamie!

I want to ask her out this Christmas again when she is likely free and not travelling and would want to take her to a cafe.She has showed me a couple of times online places she is looking at and sometimes with our history she is strange in a good way..she acts like a freind..acts like a crush then she has acted like a girlfriend before.I don't know if is it where we are both shy and we haven't told each other that we like each other..or I like her...I guess time will tell.

Sounds like a good plan. It's very common for two people to like each other but neither makes a move because they're both too shy or insecure to take that step. But either way, once you ask (again) you should get a clear idea of whether your feelings are reciprocated enough. Best of luck.
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Original post by Crazy Jamie
Sounds like a good plan. It's very common for two people to like each other but neither makes a move because they're both too shy or insecure to take that step. But either way, once you ask (again) you should get a clear idea of whether your feelings are reciprocated enough. Best of luck.


Thankyou for your advice.Much much appreciated😄👍

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