Loving a celebrity is the most embarassing thing I accidentally ever committed to
Hello. I’ve been suffering from serious depression, anxiety, and extremely low self-esteem, leading to self-harming thoughts, all because of my life and choices. I’m primarily attracted to foreign males and have fallen in love with my celebrity crushes. Let’s call them T, J, and R.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, and it’s brave of you to share. It’s okay to have crushes - they can be a way to escape or cope - but they might also reflect unmet needs like connection or excitement. Right now, focus on small steps to take care of yourself. Journaling, trying new hobbies, or seeking therapy could help you process your feelings and build confidence. Redirecting your energy into activities or passions outside these crushes may also bring fulfillment and create opportunities to connect with others. Be kind to yourself, and remember your worth isn’t tied to relationships or circumstances. You’re not alone, with time and support, things can improve. You deserve happiness and peace.
The poster above me has given some really good advice. It may also be worth reminding yourself that these feelings are infatuation, not love. You can’t be in love with someone you’ve never met and don’t know personally. One day you will but not with a celebrity.
Original post by bones-mccoy
The poster above me has given some really good advice. It may also be worth reminding yourself that these feelings are infatuation, not love. You can’t be in love with someone you’ve never met and don’t know personally. One day you will but not with a celebrity.
i can't be in love with i met because i am not attracted to them and that's why i am attracted, in love with people whom i never met, they live in a different country and celebrities are the most famous people i know from other countries.
Original post by Anonymous
i can't be in love with i met because i am not attracted to them and that's why i am attracted, in love with people whom i never met, they live in a different country and celebrities are the most famous people i know from other countries.
That makes no sense. You can’t be in love with a celebrity because you don’t KNOW them.
I’ve been through some tough times with low self-esteem and feelings of being stuck too, so I get where you’re coming from. It can be really draining when you invest so much in someone, only for things to fall apart or not work out how you hoped. For me, it helped to take a step back and focus on the things that make me feel good, even if it’s just small stuff like hobbies or hanging out with friends. Life can feel pretty dull and lonely sometimes, but things do change, even if it’s hard to see it right now. You deserve a chance to feel better and build up your self-worth at your own pace. Take care of yourself.
Loving a celebrity is the most normal and unremarkable thing you ever admitted to.
Original post by anosmianAcrimony
Loving a celebrity is the most normal and unremarkable thing you ever admitted to.
Seems like a very common teenage fixation, doesn’t it?
Original post by Anonymous
Hello. I’ve been suffering from serious depression, anxiety, and extremely low self-esteem, leading to self-harming thoughts, all because of my life and choices. I’m primarily attracted to foreign males and have fallen in love with my celebrity crushes. Let’s call them T, J, and R.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
Hi there,
You've been so brave to be so open and honest here. It sounds like you've been dealing with some really difficult emotions with all of this, and it has been impacting your mental health with you mentioning your struggles with depression, anxiety and low-self esteem.
It looks like there's been some helpful advice posted already in regards to self-care, and redirecting your energy into other things/opportunities if you feel you want or need to.
You mentioned that your mental health struggles have led to some self-harming thoughts - if you feel you need advice/support with self-harm, Heads Above the Waves have some really great resources ( https://hatw.co.uk/straight-up-advice/ ).
If you ever need support with thoughts of suicide please know that HOPELINE247 is here 24/7. You can find more details for all of the different ways to get in touch with us here:- https://www.papyrus-uk.org/
Original post by Anonymous
Hello. I’ve been suffering from serious depression, anxiety, and extremely low self-esteem, leading to self-harming thoughts, all because of my life and choices. I’m primarily attracted to foreign males and have fallen in love with my celebrity crushes. Let’s call them T, J, and R.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
I was deeply into T from mid-2020 until April 2022, but then he had several dating rumors and some weird, inappropriate behavior at an award show. After that, I found J and admired him, eventually falling in love from April 2022 to February 2024. However, he also had three dating rumors and a close connection with a female assistant choreographer, which affected my feelings.
Now, I like another guy who’s my age. He seems sweet and cute, but I still can’t find happiness because my life feels boring and miserable in my country. I’m not sure if I’ll ever have anyone in my life or how that’s even possible. I’m going through breakdowns and battling low self-worth.
Thanks for reading. I hope this doesn’t trigger negative comments. By the way, they all have the same profession, but I don’t think I’m attracted to the profession itself. I just found them to be my type.
You need to speak to your GP.
What would make you feel happy?
There is a lot of support out there such as:
-The Samaritans, you can call 116 123, which is available 24 hours a day
-Mind, 0300 123 3393
-Saneline, 0300 304 7000, from 4.30pm-10.30pm
-The mix, 0800 808 4994, 11am-11pm
-SHOUT, text 852258, 24 hour text service
-Crises, 741741, text service
-Papyrus, 0800 068 4141, if you have thoughts of suicide or in emotional distress
-Rethink mental health, 0300 5000 927
-No Panic, 0800 138 8889
-Relate, they have a chat advisor
-NHS mental health, 111
-Kooth, www.kooth.com, a chat, message website
-7cups, www.7cups.com, 24/7 online chat
-Support line, 01708 765200, email: [email protected]
-Anxiety UK, 03444 775 774, 9:30am to 17:30pm Mon to Friday, a text service 07537 416905
-Young minds, www.youngminds.org.uk
-Calm, calm.com
-Mental Health 24/7: 0800 008 6516
-hubofhope website, useful contact information for your local area.
You can self refer yourself to talking therapies on the NHS website.
Young minds website has a variety of information for mental health, from anxiety, depression, panic attacks, stress to loneliness etc.
There is the mind forum Also Facebook groups You can join support groups
You can contact a crises team if things get very bad Plenty of resources online, infor mation regarding well being
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