I can’t ‘finish’ with guys I’m very attracted to

It’s annoying lol and idk why, but whenever I hookup with guys I find very hot I can’t finish. Nothing to do with whatever they’re doing either. It’s like I fancy them too much I get giddy and butterflies in my stomach and can’t seem to be properly engaged sexually. With guys I’m less attracted to I’m able to finish.

I admit I've never heard of that before. Does this happen if you are having sex in the dark or in a position in which you can't see them? ie when you can't see how "hot" they are?

Ik it’s weird lol, nah if the lights on or off it’s no different. Tbh if they have a great personality too that gets me feeling the same way.

When you can't finish is it you doing things or them? This is a fairly common phenomenon I think - sometimes you may just need to educate them a bit more about how you like things done.
Also sometimes it just takes a while, and there's nothing wrong with that. Make sure they can be patient and stick with it and not pressure you to get there.

I wonder if the minute you like them more due to their hotness or personality, you don't fully let go, lose those inhibitions and focus on your own pleasure enough? Could be you're too busy in your head overthinking and worrying about it being good and what they think of you. When you don't fancy them as much you're able to finish as you don't feel so tense. If that's the case you need to try and loosen up and tell yourself they're less hot until afterwards!

It’s annoying lol and idk why, but whenever I hookup with guys I find very hot I can’t finish. Nothing to do with whatever they’re doing either. It’s like I fancy them too much I get giddy and butterflies in my stomach and can’t seem to be properly engaged sexually. With guys I’m less attracted to I’m able to finish.

I think ur right I get tense lol, no I can’t psyche myself that they aren’t fit though haha

Try girls

I am bi but honestly I think the same thing will occur lol