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crush advice pls respond I don't have friends to talk abt this lol

I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙

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Just get close to him slowly, either it's through your friends or his friends. You said his friends approached you, if this was somewhat recently go up to them and ask them to elaborate on it. The fact you went up to them and asked them gives the impression that you are interested but also if you find out he's not interested it'll be easy to play off as just curiosity. Just be friends with him, whether it's before a test and you ask him if he's nervous or afterwards, ask help with assignments, etc, try to talk to him. Remember, you're only 14, it's not the end of the world if he doesn't like you back.

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by THEODDONEOUT7777
I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙

As a guy, I would say you have at least a 100% chance of succeeding if you were to go and ask for something simple from him, like a snap or insta whatever. I would also say from experience he probably does like you if he can't take his eyes off of you.
As the post below says although, you are only 14, you will get many more chances for romance in your life so you shouldn't take this one so seriously!
Good luck!

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