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tsr remove this please

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There is not enough context here. Were you reporting the incidents of bullying to the teacher? Did you take it higher up and report it to the principal / student support, etc.?
What exactly were you doing that constituted as "causing problems in class"?
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
There is not enough context here. Were you reporting the incidents of bullying to the teacher? Did you take it higher up and report it to the principal / student support, etc.?
What exactly were you doing that constituted as "causing problems in class"?
well i tried twice the first time one of the teachers talked a few girls i talked about about the second time she didn't want to hear it and said i keep dodging the question and was acting like she didn't want to talk to me as it is not needed, so i walked away
i talked to the safeguarding team and reception as they offered to help, there was a statement written about things that were happening
i also tried to talk to the curriculum manager but i got told that it is gossip, when i tried to speak with the principal they avoided me talking to her so i didn't
well all i did was twice i try to stand up for myself but it turned it into a argument which made me get into trouble as i was accused of starting it
also i do nothing but students pick on me for no reason and teachers kept yelling at me and i got told i cause ''friction'' in class but it is cause nothing has been done about it so the bullying got worse and i have to removed as they think i am the problem
i would mind my own business and the teachers would keep looking for mistakes and telling me off so that the whole class knows i got told off and that is why students assume i am bad and make mean comments
also in class when bullying happens the teachers don't try to stop it instead make me look bad and said i am rude to everyone
i am supposed to go to class for learning but i am being made to stay at home but with no class work to do which is making me learn nothing and it is not fair
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
There is not enough context here. Were you reporting the incidents of bullying to the teacher? Did you take it higher up and report it to the principal / student support, etc.?
What exactly were you doing that constituted as "causing problems in class"?
also i got told that both of the course teacher constantly went to the curriculum manager to complain about me which made her want to get rid of me
Are you in school? College? Sixth form?
Have your parents gotten involved in this situation?
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
Are you in school? College? Sixth form?
Have your parents gotten involved in this situation?
i went to College and i am suppose to attend classes as my attendance would go low but i got told i have to choose three options either GAP year/course/short-course in January
my mom told me to ignore the bullying
Okay if you feel as though you have been treated unfairly, you can make a formal complaint to the OIA:

Office of the Independent Adjudicator for Higher Education - OIAHE

Best of luck.
Original post by PinkMobilePhone
Okay if you feel as though you have been treated unfairly, you can make a formal complaint to the OIA:
Office of the Independent Adjudicator for Higher Education - OIAHE
Best of luck.
yes i feel it is unfair as i feel they just want non-muslims in class as i am a muslim and feel targeted
as it is most of the students are non-muslims and only two students who are muslims and they keep telling me off and trying to make me leave
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Original post by mistaken-spacer
i got told i can no longer attend lessons as i cause problems in class when other students have hurt me
but i feel it isn't my fault

You need to be more reflective of your own behaviour. You have reported nothing about your won behaviour and responses through these incidents. It simply isn't credible that anyone can go through all these stages of review to the point of being excluded without them being a problem, even if not the only problem.

Take a good look at yourself, your language, your behaviour etc and no matter how unfair you think it is, realise it is unacceptable.
Original post by threeportdrift
You need to be more reflective of your own behaviour. You have reported nothing about your won behaviour and responses through these incidents. It simply isn't credible that anyone can go through all these stages of review to the point of being excluded without them being a problem, even if not the only problem.
Take a good look at yourself, your language, your behaviour etc and no matter how unfair you think it is, realise it is unacceptable.
agreed, but i tried to get peace as i feel the staff aren't doing anything about it but the teachers have made the curriculum manager think i cause the bullying towards me
she also only is concerned about when students threaten me
she keeps blaming me and said ''your an easy target'' and acting like there is no point in stopping it instead allowing those students to get away and make me feel really upset
when i get bullied, i try not to give a reaction but it makes me so annoyed that students can do whatever they want and not be told off but i do for trying to stand up for myself
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Original post by mistaken-spacer
agreed, but i tried to get peace as i feel the staff aren't doing anything about it but the teachers have made the curriculum manager think i cause the bullying towards me
she also only is concerned about when students threaten me
she keeps blaming me and said ''your an easy target'' and acting like there is no point in stopping it instead allowing those students to get away and make me feel really upset
when i get bullied, i try not to give a reaction but it makes me so annoyed that students can do whatever they want and not be told off but i do for trying to stand up for myself

Then focus your energies on changing what is making you an 'easy target', not on responding to the results of the 'targeting'.
Original post by threeportdrift
Then focus your energies on changing what is making you an 'easy target', not on responding to the results of the 'targeting'.
she says it is cause i don't socialise with other people but i have done that but the teachers make it seem like i don't
Original post by mistaken-spacer
i got told i can no longer attend lessons as i cause problems in class when other students have hurt me
but i feel it isn't my fault

I read a lot of your threads when you were posting under another username. You always blame everyone else and frequently play the religion card.
Original post by mistaken-spacer
she says it is cause i don't socialise with other people but i have done that but the teachers make it seem like i don't

Again, stop blaming others. You ARE the problem here, and it's not going to change unless you change. Develop some insight.
well okay i guess it is all my fault that i can't be good enough
and i deserve to be hated on all the time because of all my mistakes
i guess you're right....
i am missing out on my education - because of me 😭

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