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Girl told me her ex had a bigger D

I’m dating a girl and she told me that she’s only had sex with me, that I am her first person she had sex with.

I told her I didn’t believe her because she was dating her ex bf longer than me, she was with her ex for over 1 year and only with me for 5 months.

I was like surely u slept with your ex and she said:

“no I only gave him hand jobs because his **** was way bigger than yours, it was huge, it didn’t fit inside me when we tried and was too painful whenever he tried to put it in so we didn’t successfully have sex. It was also too big for my mouth when I tried to give him a blowjob so I could only do a handjob.

But yours is smaller which is better for me so I was able to have sex with you, it was still painful with you but at least it fits”

Idk how to take this? Is this an insult? Like I’m sure she didn’t mean it as an insult but it kinda felt like an indirect insult and now I feel self conscious
Original post by Anonymous
I’m dating a girl and she told me that she’s only had sex with me, that I am her first person she had sex with.
I told her I didn’t believe her because she was dating her ex bf longer than me, she was with her ex for over 1 year and only with me for 5 months.
I was like surely u slept with your ex and she said:
“no I only gave him hand jobs because his **** was way bigger than yours, it was huge, it didn’t fit inside me when we tried and was too painful whenever he tried to put it in so we didn’t successfully have sex. It was also too big for my mouth when I tried to give him a blowjob so I could only do a handjob.
But yours is smaller which is better for me so I was able to have sex with you, it was still painful with you but at least it fits”
Idk how to take this? Is this an insult? Like I’m sure she didn’t mean it as an insult but it kinda felt like an indirect insult and now I feel self conscious

It is a bad phrasing of words from her, and something you shouldn't take personally because you definitely can't change it.
It is a kind of do with this info what you will, and there isn't much you can do with it.
Original post by Anonymous
I’m dating a girl and she told me that she’s only had sex with me, that I am her first person she had sex with.
I told her I didn’t believe her because she was dating her ex bf longer than me, she was with her ex for over 1 year and only with me for 5 months.
I was like surely u slept with your ex and she said:
“no I only gave him hand jobs because his **** was way bigger than yours, it was huge, it didn’t fit inside me when we tried and was too painful whenever he tried to put it in so we didn’t successfully have sex. It was also too big for my mouth when I tried to give him a blowjob so I could only do a handjob.
But yours is smaller which is better for me so I was able to have sex with you, it was still painful with you but at least it fits”
Idk how to take this? Is this an insult? Like I’m sure she didn’t mean it as an insult but it kinda felt like an indirect insult and now I feel self conscious

As someone who is "blessed", I can tell you that it's possible to be too big for some people.

I've had some girls freak out when they've seen me, and one actually refused to have sex with me. Although anal sex is something I'd like to try, I've not yet found someone who'll have me (apparently smaller is better). Even if she's willing, wearing regular size condoms is very uncomfortable, and can literally kill the moment. As a result, a lot of times, I have to settle for non-penetrative sex (e.g. spooning, which I quite like TBF). Also, if you're out and about, and you're "pleased to see someone", it's almost impossible to hide, and can be very very embarrassing.

I'm assuming you've had other partners? Have any of them commented said you're small? If you've had several and this is the first time, you're probably OK. The UK average is about 6 inches in length, so you can use that as a yardstick. That being said, it's the girth that's the real issue when it comes to size.

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Dump her.
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