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girls and boys what do u think this means - need advice lol

I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙
Original post by THEODDONEOUT7777
I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙

just approach him, like when you are walking to school in the mornings get to know him and make conversation with him and you will realise if he likes you or not when you talk to him :smile:, us boys are very scared to approach girls so girls should also try approaching us.
Original post by THEODDONEOUT7777
I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙

There are many ways that you can achieve your objectives.

First, you can try to ask one of your friends to approach him and drop hints such as “do you like Emma? You guys would look good together. You should ask her for her snap.”

Second, you can ask him for some help during the period such as “Hi Jack, I was wondering whether you have some time later. I am struggling to understand topic X and wondering whether we could study together”.

Try to speak to him and stop glancing at each other. Good luck,
Original post by THEODDONEOUT7777
I am a girl, (14), and my crush is the same age as me. we only share one period together, his friend approached me one day and said my crush thinks I'm cute, and if I think he's cute, I said "no thanks" bc I didn't want my feelings to be shown (prob dumb of me but I'm shy as hell, not to mention my only close friends are girls) then his friend said ok and left. The next day was a weekend and homecoming party, I saw my crush a lot there and he walked past me and I caught him glancing several of times as well. We don't rlly talk we just look at each other. Another Time was when we had time before school started (late start), I was walking with my friends and he was walking by and I noticed him glancing at me several times. Idk if he has a crush on me, but how should I talk to him or show I'm interested? Pls respond and tysm 🩷🩵🤍💜💙

Well it seems that there is already tension and some kind of chemistry going on between you guys. I think you should just go up and talk to him. If he's glancing at you many times, he's interested or debating if he should go talk to you or not. Maybe he's shy also. I would say take on for the team and o approach him. Better than waiting for him to make the move and that can probably go on for weeks. So just approach him and start off subtle.

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