is this a bad sign from a guy?
he seems nice and all but he wants me to go to his place will be hours on the train and a couple or few changes so bit too far for me so will probs ask to meet halfway.
but the fact he wants me to snuggle in bed and watch movies straight away tells me he wants to sleep with me.. or am i thinking too much? should i go??
(an hour by car and he can drive bearing in mind!)
but the fact he wants me to snuggle in bed and watch movies straight away tells me he wants to sleep with me.. or am i thinking too much? should i go??
(an hour by car and he can drive bearing in mind!)
Reply 1
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Yes he wants to sleep with you. If you're interested then go ahead. If you're not interested or want to take things slower then don't go but he may move onto another woman.
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by jay2013Yes he wants to sleep with you. If you're interested then go ahead. If you're not interested or want to take things slower then don't go but he may move onto another woman.
that’s fine just had bad experience with previous guys who r just looking to sleep with me and i’m not into that. so i guess ill move on if he doesnt want smth serious
i attract the wrong guys all the time idk why
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by Anonymousthat’s fine just had bad experience with previous guys who r just looking to sleep with me and i’m not into that. so i guess ill move on if he doesnt want smth serious
i attract the wrong guys all the time idk why
i attract the wrong guys all the time idk why
The majority of men are simple. They want sex. It is that simple.
There a few of us, myself included, who want sex as well but also something meaningful. Just got to find one of us.
Reply 4
There are a lot of questions:
He might just be nice and wants a loving, cuddly date. But I completely get where you are coming from. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. He'll get over it. It seems far.
1.
Will his parents be there?
2.
Is he offering to drive you home?
3.
Will other people be there in general (siblings and stuff)?
He might just be nice and wants a loving, cuddly date. But I completely get where you are coming from. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it. He'll get over it. It seems far.
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by Anonymoushe seems nice and all but he wants me to go to his place will be hours on the train and a couple or few changes so bit too far for me so will probs ask to meet halfway.
but the fact he wants me to snuggle in bed and watch movies straight away tells me he wants to sleep with me.. or am i thinking too much? should i go??
(an hour by car and he can drive bearing in mind!)
but the fact he wants me to snuggle in bed and watch movies straight away tells me he wants to sleep with me.. or am i thinking too much? should i go??
(an hour by car and he can drive bearing in mind!)
His using you for one thing..he don't think you are worth taking out or anything. Once he gets what he wants , he will start being busy and you will chase him and he will have so much power and in the end probably cheat . It's the same patterns. Unless you change your behaviour, you will keep attracting the same person reincarnated in different people. Try go for a different type of guy .
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