How do I tell someone I fancy one of their staff?
I went on holiday to California, and whilst checking in at my hotel, I was served by a beautiful looking receptionist who was of Hispanic heritage. I couldn't tell how old she was or anything, but is there any way I could contact the hotel and tell them I fancy her without being disrespectful? Thanks.
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I am a uni student though.
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by Midwiferystu25Go and ask your friends in a group chat rather than on a forum designed to help others with their degrees/applications maybe?
TBF, this IS the relationships section, it's not like he's posting this in the study or university application section. People post far worse stuff in here (just look around), so I don't see why you felt the need to single this user out.
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by Old Skool FreakTBF, this IS the relationships section, it's not like he's posting this in the study or university application section. People post far worse stuff in here (just look around), so I don't see why you felt the need to single this user out.
Sorry- i am new to this app and didn’t realise there were sub groups that weren’t about school topics. I am autistic and sometimes come across a bit rude but I don’t mean to. Apologies to everyone.
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by AviatorFanI went on holiday to California, and whilst checking in at my hotel, I was served by a beautiful looking receptionist who was of Hispanic heritage. I couldn't tell how old she was or anything, but is there any way I could contact the hotel and tell them I fancy her without being disrespectful? Thanks.
It might be different in the USA... but assuming it's the same as the UK, there's no way the hotel would give you any details about her due to the Data Protection Act (1998 ) and more recently the new GDPR regulations.
https://gdpr-info.eu/
Realistically, if you knew her name (or her photo is listed on the hotel website), you can try searching for her on Social Media and see if she'll add you. It's very unlikely she'll accept unless you have a significant amount of chit-chat with her and she remembers you. In hindsight, it would have been better if you had asked all this in person... but assuming you're back in the UK now, it's not an option now (unless you've got A LOT of time / money on your hands lol)
Alternatively, if you got chatting to another member of staff who knows her, you could maybe ask them to put in a good word for you, give them your contact details and see if she'll respond.
Other than that, I don't think there's anything you can do without appearing like a complete psycho stalker.
(edited 1 year ago)
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by Midwiferystu25Sorry- i am new to this app and didn’t realise there were sub groups that weren’t about school topics. I am autistic and sometimes come across a bit rude but I don’t mean to. Apologies to everyone.
No worries 👌
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It would be totally inappropriate for the hotel toprovide staff contact details. Also consider that women like this in customer serving roles are likely to find grand gestures and surprises contacts an occupational hazard rather than something welcome. Plenty more fish
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by AviatorFanI went on holiday to California, and whilst checking in at my hotel, I was served by a beautiful looking receptionist who was of Hispanic heritage. I couldn't tell how old she was or anything, but is there any way I could contact the hotel and tell them I fancy her without being disrespectful? Thanks.
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"Is there any way I could contact the hotel and tell them I fancy her without being disrespectful?"
No.
No.
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by ZarekIt would be totally inappropriate for the hotel toprovide staff contact details. Also consider that women like this in customer serving roles are likely to find grand gestures and surprises contacts an occupational hazard rather than something welcome. Plenty more fish
What r u talking about now ZAREK
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