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Why are black women's disinterest in Interracial dating dismissed

I'm Southern African ( Zambian) and I've recently been exposed to a taboo topic ( in our region) that seems to be quite popular among westerners, ' interracial dating'.

It was quite interesting for me to learn how different " racial" groups see each other and interact with each other romantically.

I believe it's a human right ( with the exception of pedophiles) to be attracted to whatever you want to regardless of how you look or where you're from etc, I also believe people have a right to boundaries in relationships . I happened to notice a strange animosity towards black women whenever the topic of interracial dating is brought up, it's almost as if people dismiss their preferences and boundaries just because they are rated as the least attractive race of women, specifically when people discuss why intermarriage between black women and non black men is so rare, they only state that black women are unattractive and never state that black women aren't attracted to non black people either. Why can't both be true? It seems like people are going out of their way to completely dismiss black women's consent to the matter.

Hypothetically if black women become more attractive to non black men, I still don't think intermarriage between them would be common, why? Because the attraction has to be mutual, their appearance changed but not their consent. Men of all races can prefer anything they want without any weird hated comments implying they're too unattractive to consent to relationships.

Why are people so dismissive of black women's consent to interracial relationships? Do you think it's a double standard?
It's interesting that you keep posting very similar threads, all quietly provocative. And very few people can be bothered to get involved in your strange fascination. Including me.
Original post by ageshallnot
It's interesting that you keep posting very similar threads, all quietly provocative. And very few people can be bothered to get involved in your strange fascination. Including me.

I wonder if this part of the phenomenon of inauthentic accounts posting in overly polite language about contentious issues? I’ve seen some research done into this recently. A lot of it is AI generated.
Original post by Admit-One
I wonder if this part of the phenomenon of inauthentic accounts posting in overly polite language about contentious issues? I’ve seen some research done into this recently. A lot of it is AI generated.

Gosh! Who'd have thought it?!?!? 😆
Original post by Admit-One
I wonder if this part of the phenomenon of inauthentic accounts posting in overly polite language about contentious issues? I’ve seen some research done into this recently. A lot of it is AI generated.


Just used a different account cos I forgot the other ones password it's not that deep 😂
Original post by ageshallnot
It's interesting that you keep posting very similar threads, all quietly provocative. And very few people can be bothered to get involved in your strange fascination. Including me.


Just curious why your people are so weird about interracial dating, even self proclaimed "racist" white south africans are more respectful about it
Original post by I am a girl
Just used a different account cos I forgot the other ones password it's not that deep 😂


"it's not that deep" applies to the topic at hand rather than which account you're using.
Original post by Admit-One
"it's not that deep" applies to the topic at hand rather than which account you're using.


I was just curious about the topic tbh

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