Relationship advice

Doesn't matter. I just get scared somtiems

(edited 11 months ago)

Reply 1

Interesting that you refer to your gf as "they". Very progressive! 😇

Reading between the lines you don't sound head over heels about them. The thing you need to ask yourself, is what do you want from the relationship? Sex? Companionship? Friendship? A lover? A confident? Someone who will bring friends and family who will accept you? All of the above? If they are not ticking the boxes then what is the point? Time to move on. But don't not move on because you are afraid of upsetting / offending them. You will do this whenever you leave but at least you are not living a lie.

Good luck!

Reply 2

Surnia

First relationship and over a year of dating? Second relationship, surely, as you posted before about your first relationship having negative energy and awkward silences, so what happened there and why haven't you learnt to just relax and enjoy the moment? However, it sounds like you got with this girl for all the wrong reasons, so maybe it's better to break it off as you don't sound compatible.

Maybe this girl needs counselling; grief can impact on life in many different ways.