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twin brother doesnt like my friends

my twin brother and i are both in college, and are really close otherwise. recently though, he’s been super judgmental about my friends to their faces. i drink but dont smoke or vape, while my friends vape and smoke sometimes. they never pressure me, i just dont want to. we were both out in town last night with different groups, but when he came up to me and my friends, some of whom were vaping, he started covering his face with his shirt and complaining the whole time. it made the whole thing super uncomfortable, and today my friends were asking about why he did that. we both have a party coming up, and im stressed that hell make me really uncomfortable during the party if he’s being so judgy. i really dont know what to do, cause my friends are so lovely and i dont wanna stress them out.
any advice is really appreciated xx
Maybe quit the habit… best for you and your friends health
Just ask ahead of time for people to vape outside. Let him know you've done this.
Juist tell him to **** off if he acts up? It's extremely childish behaviour overall and if you're that close it shouldn't be an issue to point out how much he is embarrassing himself and you. (also if he does it it to the wrong person he might get a punch in the face, so maybe a habit to nip in the bud)
Original post by Anonymous
my twin brother and i are both in college, and are really close otherwise. recently though, he’s been super judgmental about my friends to their faces. i drink but dont smoke or vape, while my friends vape and smoke sometimes. they never pressure me, i just dont want to. we were both out in town last night with different groups, but when he came up to me and my friends, some of whom were vaping, he started covering his face with his shirt and complaining the whole time. it made the whole thing super uncomfortable, and today my friends were asking about why he did that. we both have a party coming up, and im stressed that hell make me really uncomfortable during the party if he’s being so judgy. i really dont know what to do, cause my friends are so lovely and i dont wanna stress them out.
any advice is really appreciated xx

I'm gonna be honest. You are in college, he is acting like a whiney *****. Tell him to grow up, people have their vices, live and let live

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