my twin brother and i are both in college, and are really close otherwise. recently though, he’s been super judgmental about my friends to their faces. i drink but dont smoke or vape, while my friends vape and smoke sometimes. they never pressure me, i just dont want to. we were both out in town last night with different groups, but when he came up to me and my friends, some of whom were vaping, he started covering his face with his shirt and complaining the whole time. it made the whole thing super uncomfortable, and today my friends were asking about why he did that. we both have a party coming up, and im stressed that hell make me really uncomfortable during the party if he’s being so judgy. i really dont know what to do, cause my friends are so lovely and i dont wanna stress them out.
any advice is really appreciated xx