Should I stay or leave?
I’m 23 autistic and suffer with severe anxiety and depression. I’ve been with my boy friend on and off for about a year and a half. I got back with him I’d say 3-4 months ago. I’m not very happy.. everyday there’s something we are arguing or disagreeing about or we just speak to each other like rubbish. Don’t get my wrong very rarely we have these moments where it feels like we just met and it’s great. But I’d it worth staying for?
Problem is I’m homeless as biological parents kicked me out and want nothing to do with me. So if I leave him I’m just gonna put myself in a lot of struggle more struggle than I’m in now. I just don’t even know what to do. Could someone tell me what they’d do in this situation please
Problem is I’m homeless as biological parents kicked me out and want nothing to do with me. So if I leave him I’m just gonna put myself in a lot of struggle more struggle than I’m in now. I just don’t even know what to do. Could someone tell me what they’d do in this situation please
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by Aggy_amyI’m 23 autistic and suffer with severe anxiety and depression. I’ve been with my boy friend on and off for about a year and a half. I got back with him I’d say 3-4 months ago. I’m not very happy.. everyday there’s something we are arguing or disagreeing about or we just speak to each other like rubbish. Don’t get my wrong very rarely we have these moments where it feels like we just met and it’s great. But I’d it worth staying for?
Problem is I’m homeless as biological parents kicked me out and want nothing to do with me. So if I leave him I’m just gonna put myself in a lot of struggle more struggle than I’m in now. I just don’t even know what to do. Could someone tell me what they’d do in this situation please
Problem is I’m homeless as biological parents kicked me out and want nothing to do with me. So if I leave him I’m just gonna put myself in a lot of struggle more struggle than I’m in now. I just don’t even know what to do. Could someone tell me what they’d do in this situation please
Do you have any friends to stay with? If you don't I'd suggest trying to save up and leave him
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the situation you're in is so sad, i'm so sorry. as the previous person mentioned, try move in with a friend asap. the longer you stay, the more dependant you'll become on him. sending you sm love
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by AnonymousDo you have any friends to stay with? If you don't I'd suggest trying to save up and leave him
Like I said I’m autistic so that I makes it really hard for me to make friends so I have no friends whatsoever.. our relationship before we broke up the first time was classed as domestic as he put a Rambo knife to my throat and rammed me off the road in my car
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by AnonymousDo you have any friends to stay with? If you don't I'd suggest trying to save up and leave him
Ain’t With the whole money situation i don’t get Alot if money so bi the time I’ve saved up I’ll probably be 50
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by Aggy_amyLike I said I’m autistic so that I makes it really hard for me to make friends so I have no friends whatsoever.. our relationship before we broke up the first time was classed as domestic as he put a Rambo knife to my throat and rammed me off the road in my car
Goodness gracious. I think you should seek help from your local council/ refuge. the next time he attacks (he will, there's no doubt) you it could be so much worse. I'm really sorry for the situation you are in
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