My dad used to make me pay to live with him but now I’ve moved out he still asks for the same amount when I visit or even more, or he asks me to buy him stuff for the house. He sometimes even asks for money just so he can give to my sisters because they have kids and I don’t he thinks I don’t deserve any money even though I need it to live.
What do I do when he asks for money? Should I just give him it? I dread going there for Christmas because I feel like I just get taken advantage of every-time I’m at home. He makes me feel guilty if I don’t give him any saying stuff like he has no money yet he makes way more than me. And he has to take me to my benefit appointment when I go back because he’s my appointee still and I feel like he won’t do it unless I give him money. I don’t know if I’m being taken advantage of or he actually deserves it