guy / feelings
hey um idk where to start w this so im just gonna jump into it:
i’ve been in an all girls school (mixed sixth form) for a while and well yk what its like. ive grown up a bit and i’ve developed a crush on a guy in the sixth form (im 16 and hes y12). it started when i accidentally hit him and i apologised to him but he was just smiling at me. i didnt think much of it but overtime i started to see him more around the school and we’d sometimes look at each other and overtime i started to develop a crush on him. and it just hurts because i haven’t spoken to a guy like properly in years. and its not just him that ive had a crush on - ive seen many guys that i like but we just walk past each other because they dont know who i am and it was all just one sided. but this time it feels different because it feels like my presence is known to him. and i dont think my presence has been known to a guy for a while. like whenever we look at each other in the corridors i always question if it actually happened because a guy hasnt looked at me in a long time. talking to a guy is like a fantasy to me like it feels like a dream because i havent sookento any. so when he smiled at me or looked at me, i just started to like him. because he seemed nice and kind and he was actually aware of my presence
i dont know where these feelings of longing for a guy came but it could be because i havent spoken to my dad in 12 years and even still i dont remember him. we arent in contact anymore. i have a brother but overtime our closeness wasnt as strong. i am a Christian and i think God knows how i feel about this guy. i just want some advice from like someone here.
tbh, Idk if these feelings are about the guy or if its because i haven’t spoken to a guy in ages and im not particularly close with any man in my family, except God.
i guess it could just be the feeling of a guy showing me attention but i feel like he cant be anything other than someone i see in the corridors
i’ve been in an all girls school (mixed sixth form) for a while and well yk what its like. ive grown up a bit and i’ve developed a crush on a guy in the sixth form (im 16 and hes y12). it started when i accidentally hit him and i apologised to him but he was just smiling at me. i didnt think much of it but overtime i started to see him more around the school and we’d sometimes look at each other and overtime i started to develop a crush on him. and it just hurts because i haven’t spoken to a guy like properly in years. and its not just him that ive had a crush on - ive seen many guys that i like but we just walk past each other because they dont know who i am and it was all just one sided. but this time it feels different because it feels like my presence is known to him. and i dont think my presence has been known to a guy for a while. like whenever we look at each other in the corridors i always question if it actually happened because a guy hasnt looked at me in a long time. talking to a guy is like a fantasy to me like it feels like a dream because i havent sookento any. so when he smiled at me or looked at me, i just started to like him. because he seemed nice and kind and he was actually aware of my presence
i dont know where these feelings of longing for a guy came but it could be because i havent spoken to my dad in 12 years and even still i dont remember him. we arent in contact anymore. i have a brother but overtime our closeness wasnt as strong. i am a Christian and i think God knows how i feel about this guy. i just want some advice from like someone here.
tbh, Idk if these feelings are about the guy or if its because i haven’t spoken to a guy in ages and im not particularly close with any man in my family, except God.
i guess it could just be the feeling of a guy showing me attention but i feel like he cant be anything other than someone i see in the corridors
Reply 1
Honestly, (coming from a y13 in all-girls catholic school), it might be because we've spent growing up and becoming more mature surrounded by girls same age. And haven't had this boy-communication skills developed. It might be partly that. but idk tbh. just pretend he's like one of your friends, that's the only advice i can give u
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