Im 16 and never had a gf and it doesnt feel ok.
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Im 16 and never had a gf as the title states. Also sorry for my bad English its my 3th language. So first of all i would not necessarily say that im a bad looking guy im 185cm/6,1 78kg and im lightskin with curly hair. I was really social and used to love to talk with people but i’ve changed much i dont really talk anymore and i one have like 2 friends. The thing is everyone i know has had or has a gf or bf and its stressing me out a lot of times im just in my bed thinking about why i dont have one and how amazing it would be to have a girlfriend.It may seem like im a really introverted person but if you get to know my i wont stop talking with you. Could someone please explain to me why I can’t get a girlfriend and what i could change.
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I cant get a bf either gonna wait for 1 lol
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by SdkiIm 16 and never had a gf as the title states. Also sorry for my bad English its my 3th language. So first of all i would not necessarily say that im a bad looking guy im 185cm/6,1 78kg and im lightskin with curly hair. I was really social and used to love to talk with people but i’ve changed much i dont really talk anymore and i one have like 2 friends. The thing is everyone i know has had or has a gf or bf and its stressing me out a lot of times im just in my bed thinking about why i dont have one and how amazing it would be to have a girlfriend.It may seem like im a really introverted person but if you get to know my i wont stop talking with you. Could someone please explain to me why I can’t get a girlfriend and what i could change.
I'm in the same predicament and I'm older than you, but the difference is I'm not too bothered about not having a girlfriend. Sure, it's desirable to have a partner you can share your life with, but think of the positives in your current situation, or failing that think of the ways you can improve yourself. I think the older you get the more confident you'll be because you'll be more familiar with who you are and the kinds of people you want to be associated with. At 16 you've probably been constrained by school and therefore you aren't open to the wider world. If you can focus on building good friendships and being unashamed to be exactly who you are, you will find the success you seek.
Reply 3
You are very very young and have a long long time to go and find a gf.
Perhaps you can start working out, making plans for your future, work on your confidence, social skills, how you come across.
Perhaps you can start working out, making plans for your future, work on your confidence, social skills, how you come across.
Like Analyst said, you have a long long time - so let life take you in the correct direction, and when the time is right, someone will come by.
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by SdkiIm 16 and never had a gf as the title states. Also sorry for my bad English its my 3th language. So first of all i would not necessarily say that im a bad looking guy im 185cm/6,1 78kg and im lightskin with curly hair. I was really social and used to love to talk with people but i’ve changed much i dont really talk anymore and i one have like 2 friends. The thing is everyone i know has had or has a gf or bf and its stressing me out a lot of times im just in my bed thinking about why i dont have one and how amazing it would be to have a girlfriend.It may seem like im a really introverted person but if you get to know my i wont stop talking with you. Could someone please explain to me why I can’t get a girlfriend and what i could change.
hi,
I totaly understand what your going through right now. I'm nearly 15 (in under 3 months) and im the only girl in my year and 2 years below me who has never had a bf (or gf). For a long time i thought there must be something wrong with ME! Most of the kids in my friendgroup tease me for being "pure" and "single as a penny"(???) so i felt really down for months. i dont know if this helps getting a gf or bf (not yet, but one can hope) but i find that letting lose and doing random freestyle dancing (dont ask) and studying over what everyone else says is mental (again, dont ask) really helps me feel confident in myself. Good look finding that dream girl! 🙂 You sound like a lovely guy and i wish you the best.
Merry Christmas ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Reply 6
im 18 and if you are thinking things like this chances are it probably wont get better
Reply 7
We’ll you’ve just reached the legal age of consent so that’s how it should be buddy
Reply 8
I’m 23 and never had a girlfriend. My lord is Nick Fuentes
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by Little peckerWe’ll you’ve just reached the legal age of consent so that’s how it should be buddy
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damn I'm nearly 16 in (2 months) never had a boyfriend tbh it doesn't bother me the only guys that ask me out or want to date me are jerks or just trying to find some one to have sex with. I'm to busy to date anyways plus I'd rather keep up the good grades and try to make something good out of myself
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Reply 11
Don’t stress about it! You have lots of time, as cliche as it sounds it will happen when it happens. You just gotta be yourself and try meeting other people and making friends w more people. I get it sucks being left out but there is genuinely no time limit for meeting people.
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i didnt date until i was almost nineteen and felt very similarly. it isnt anything wrong with you, and from what you've said, you dont need to change anything about yourself. provided youre genuine and enjoyable to be around, youll find the right person eventually. youre still young, even if it doesnt feel like it. id say its better to wait for someone you have a connection with than to try for a relationship with someone you dont really like.
Reply 13
I am 33 and never had a girlfriend, I got really close but I am still a virgin and I only kissed once and that was without tongues
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by SdkiIm 16 and never had a gf as the title states. Also sorry for my bad English its my 3th language. So first of all i would not necessarily say that im a bad looking guy im 185cm/6,1 78kg and im lightskin with curly hair. I was really social and used to love to talk with people but i’ve changed much i dont really talk anymore and i one have like 2 friends. The thing is everyone i know has had or has a gf or bf and its stressing me out a lot of times im just in my bed thinking about why i dont have one and how amazing it would be to have a girlfriend.It may seem like im a really introverted person but if you get to know my i wont stop talking with you. Could someone please explain to me why I can’t get a girlfriend and what i could change.
Well, you do have a long time ahead of yourself, maybe you can start to make friends. Not meaning you don't have any but meaning females. What I'm trying to say is that you could probably make some friends that are not male. And you can ask what they like and become confident in yourself to where you can ask a girl out.
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by SdkiIm 16 and never had a gf as the title states. Also sorry for my bad English its my 3th language. So first of all i would not necessarily say that im a bad looking guy im 185cm/6,1 78kg and im lightskin with curly hair. I was really social and used to love to talk with people but i’ve changed much i dont really talk anymore and i one have like 2 friends. The thing is everyone i know has had or has a gf or bf and its stressing me out a lot of times im just in my bed thinking about why i dont have one and how amazing it would be to have a girlfriend.It may seem like im a really introverted person but if you get to know my i wont stop talking with you. Could someone please explain to me why I can’t get a girlfriend and what i could change.
oh youre sooooo old, LOL. Oh my god, time will come ,just wait and see.
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