Hi, I’m currently stuck in a rut here and need some advice. Up until yesterday I was under the impression that I was spending Christmas with my grandmother as I haven’t spoken to my mother since leaving for Uni in September for reasons far too long to explain and I live with her during the holidays. Anyways, yesterday I found out she was planning to spend Christmas at my mother’s house despite telling me the contrary and is now trying to get me to go there cause apparently my brothers want me there. I really don’t wanna go to my mother’s in all honesty but I need some advice on how to handle so if anybody can provide any that’d be great.