2 weeks ago we lost my grandad suddenly to cancer (only a week between diagnosis and passing). in that time, my grandmother moved into the guest room in the house. but recently, my mum has just seemed really angry with me all the time. she gets mad that im not coming out of my room, but then every time i do she gets angry that im not spending enough time with my grandmother, or am not helping around the house. tonight, while i was cooking dinner, she asked me why i wasnt coming out of room. when i said it was because i didnt really feel like talking to people right now, she responded that i need to improve my people skills if i want to be a lawyer (a dream of mine since i was 10). and then she got angry that i ‘seemed annoyed’. i have 3 siblings (boy also sixteen, girl nineteen and girl fourteen), but they dont seem to be getting anywhere as much anger. i understand that my mum is hurting, but she seems to have forgotten that i lost my grandad too. im sorry for ranting, but i just feel really angry and hopeless.