Okay, so I have only ever kissed 1 girl in my life and it was on the lips without using tongues, I am expecting to kiss a different girl soon and she likes using tongues, I guess what I'm asking is how do I put my tongue in her mouth and then what do i do ? i dont want her to see im new to this lol
This is an entirely understandable concern, and one that plenty of people have to do with anything related to intimacy, including sex. But the same advice applies here as it does to sex, and that is that as much as you can be experienced or inexperienced with these things, they fundamentally only work well when both people are on the same wavelength. That can click quickly, but it does usually takes some time. So if it doesn't click straightaway, there's no reason why that would show you up as not being experienced. All it does is show you up as being inexperienced at kissing her. Which you obviously are. There's not much to using tongues when kissing. Probably the biggest mistake people generally make with it is trying to be aggressive with it, when really you should be going with the flow. Start with lips. There'll come a point where she opens her mouth a bit. Do the same. Your tongues will meet half way. That's basically it. Everything else from there should feel pretty natural, and once it does happen you'll almost certainly be left wondering why you were so anxious about it. Just relax and you'll be fine.