So my aunt has a daughter who’s my cousin. Last year she let me dye my hair and grow it long even though she was hesitant and unwilling because she was depressed her mother died. So she basically let me have very long waist length hair. Before this, she would never ever let me grow my hair, I’m not allowed to do bleach my hair or anything. Just a chin length black frizzy bob. Now I’m not saying I want male attention at all yeah but listen. In high school all the boys looked awful so I mean no boy looked at me and that didn’t matter since they were all ugly . In sixth form no one noticed either again I don’t care. The minute I grew my hair out much longer and I was allowed to wear whatever I want not anything revealing normal teenage clothes than a very long skirt or a sweater with boots, 3 boys started liking me all at the same time, another two flirted.
I’m saying this is proof that me growing my hair out and bleaching and straightening is proof I look good. So she cuts it for the past 15 years every 4 months saying look u have split ends, we need to cut them! That’s nasty! When she wants long hair and wants bleached hair but because she can’t do those things since her hair is very short she won’t let me.
So now it’s been a year since her mom died and now she’s all happy and has a partner and now she Began to do it again. I cried so much and even her daughter who’s very mean felt bad and said yeah don’t cut her hair which was very surprising, I begged her and said let this be a present for me since u never bought me anything. She says u don’t need any presents, im cutting ur hair short again. After 6 whole months of beautiful hair, im depressed.