relationship advice needed
i’m dating a girl and she feels uncomfortable with me going out with my best mate who has been my best mate for years because she’s quite out there and likes dancing with loads of people etc. for new years i asked my girlfriend to be with me but she can’t so my best mate asked if i wanted to join her going out. i told my gf and she told me she’s not comfortable with it but like will suck it up. what the hell do i do here i don’t know what to do at all. it’s my life and i should be able to do what i want but i don’t want to hurt anyone. wlw girl pls help me
Reply 1
Relationships get better and more intimate only when two people are comfortable with each other and trust each other. From your description, it seems that your partner is uncomfortable or insecure about the situation, and that's something worth addressing with care.
Start by having a open and honest conversation with her—ask her how she feels and why it bothers her. Listen without getting defensive, and try to understand her perspective. At the same time, share why hanging out with your mate is important to you. Reassure her that your relationship with her is your priority, and if there are ways to make her feel more comfortable—like setting boundaries or introducing your mate to her—suggest them.
The key is to find a solution together that respects both of your feelings."
Hope this helps and wish you the very best in your relationship.
Start by having a open and honest conversation with her—ask her how she feels and why it bothers her. Listen without getting defensive, and try to understand her perspective. At the same time, share why hanging out with your mate is important to you. Reassure her that your relationship with her is your priority, and if there are ways to make her feel more comfortable—like setting boundaries or introducing your mate to her—suggest them.
The key is to find a solution together that respects both of your feelings."
Hope this helps and wish you the very best in your relationship.
Reply 2
Original post
by AnonymousRelationships get better and more intimate only when two people are comfortable with each other and trust each other. From your description, it seems that your partner is uncomfortable or insecure about the situation, and that's something worth addressing with care.
Start by having a open and honest conversation with her—ask her how she feels and why it bothers her. Listen without getting defensive, and try to understand her perspective. At the same time, share why hanging out with your mate is important to you. Reassure her that your relationship with her is your priority, and if there are ways to make her feel more comfortable—like setting boundaries or introducing your mate to her—suggest them.
The key is to find a solution together that respects both of your feelings."
Hope this helps and wish you the very best in your relationship.
Start by having a open and honest conversation with her—ask her how she feels and why it bothers her. Listen without getting defensive, and try to understand her perspective. At the same time, share why hanging out with your mate is important to you. Reassure her that your relationship with her is your priority, and if there are ways to make her feel more comfortable—like setting boundaries or introducing your mate to her—suggest them.
The key is to find a solution together that respects both of your feelings."
Hope this helps and wish you the very best in your relationship.
thank you!
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