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does this give u the ick

does this give u the ick

hey it’s probably just me lol but when you’ve been talking to a guy for a few weeks it’s exciting but i hate it when they just stop the convo and send just snaps constantly back and forth. so now i have left this guy on opened and he gets upset about it but ive told him i don’t really want to keep snapping back it’s pointless.

like leave the convo for another time or actually have a conversation instead of being so lazy as im the one doing it even tho hes more into me than i am into him as he keeps spamming snaps 🤣

time to leave i guess isn’t it

Reply 1

Tbh I speak as a guy, if we start spamming snaps, we basically still wanna talk to u but we jus have nothing to talk to u about, I mean his intentions r clear, jus keep him talking or jus it can be the most random thing ever, I mean there's a million things to talk about, if u really like him and he like u, u would never have time not to talk about stuff

Reply 2

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by looking-likeness
Tbh I speak as a guy, if we start spamming snaps, we basically still wanna talk to u but we jus have nothing to talk to u about, I mean his intentions r clear, jus keep him talking or jus it can be the most random thing ever, I mean there's a million things to talk about, if u really like him and he like u, u would never have time not to talk about stuff


yea i talk about things but then he ignores what i say and talks about him and rants. or sometimes he’ll just send a blank reply after or another time he’ll speak a bit but then cuts it off with snaps
i dont mind that he likes snapping but him constantly questioning why im leaving him on opened is really annoying and off putting because ive told him i dont want to snap the whole time.
he can if he wants but i dont want to back

Reply 3

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by Anonymous
yea i talk about things but then he ignores what i say and talks about him and rants. or sometimes he’ll just send a blank reply after or another time he’ll speak a bit but then cuts it off with snaps
i dont mind that he likes snapping but him constantly questioning why im leaving him on opened is really annoying and off putting because ive told him i dont want to snap the whole time.
he can if he wants but i dont want to back


I mean if he ignores u and stuff, maybe he doesn't value u like u value him, truss me if a person doesn't listen to like u listen to them, there's no point talking to them. Maybe he ain't used to talking to a person for a long time or doesn't rely much on communication. I mean if he's really getting annoyed on being left on read, it does kinda sound a bit petty, so don't let it bother u too much

Reply 4

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by looking-likeness
I mean if he ignores u and stuff, maybe he doesn't value u like u value him, truss me if a person doesn't listen to like u listen to them, there's no point talking to them. Maybe he ain't used to talking to a person for a long time or doesn't rely much on communication. I mean if he's really getting annoyed on being left on read, it does kinda sound a bit petty, so don't let it bother u too much


thank you so much it’s a shame and he was cheated on recently apparently and keeps going on about it so probs isn’t ready and maybe staying friends is a better option.
i just want a mature person that doesn’t get annoyed at small things or hasn’t got the time to listen to what i have to say.
thanks so much for your response means a lot

Reply 5

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by accesstonursing
thank you so much it’s a shame and he was cheated on recently apparently and keeps going on about it so probs isn’t ready and maybe staying friends is a better option.
i just want a mature person that doesn’t get annoyed at small things or hasn’t got the time to listen to what i have to say.
thanks so much for your response means a lot


no problem, ifk abt girls but boys really do go crazy after a relationship ends and they do stuff that don't make sense, so jus give him the space, if u really like him and he likes u, he'll come around. Maybe he jus needs someone to let his emotions out too, u do have to be the listener in that case, it'll really help him out.. Anyhow no problem for helping u out

Reply 6

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by looking-likeness
no problem, ifk abt girls but boys really do go crazy after a relationship ends and they do stuff that don't make sense, so jus give him the space, if u really like him and he likes u, he'll come around. Maybe he jus needs someone to let his emotions out too, u do have to be the listener in that case, it'll really help him out.. Anyhow no problem for helping u out


that’s true i believe if it’s meant to be it’ll happen. i’m just not going to force it especially as he’s gone thru that and it’s hard.
just will see what happens and again, thank u smmm☺️☺️

Reply 7

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by Anonymous
that’s true i believe if it’s meant to be it’ll happen. i’m just not going to force it especially as he’s gone thru that and it’s hard.
just will see what happens and again, thank u smmm☺️☺️


Np, good luck!!

Reply 8

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by Anonymous
does this give u the ick
hey it’s probably just me lol but when you’ve been talking to a guy for a few weeks it’s exciting but i hate it when they just stop the convo and send just snaps constantly back and forth. so now i have left this guy on opened and he gets upset about it but ive told him i don’t really want to keep snapping back it’s pointless.
like leave the convo for another time or actually have a conversation instead of being so lazy as im the one doing it even tho hes more into me than i am into him as he keeps spamming snaps 🤣
time to leave i guess isn’t it

Maybe it's time to pick up the phone and actually talk if you want a conversation! Why are you only messaging?

Reply 9

Original post
by Anonymous
does this give u the ick
hey it’s probably just me lol but when you’ve been talking to a guy for a few weeks it’s exciting but i hate it when they just stop the convo and send just snaps constantly back and forth. so now i have left this guy on opened and he gets upset about it but ive told him i don’t really want to keep snapping back it’s pointless.
like leave the convo for another time or actually have a conversation instead of being so lazy as im the one doing it even tho hes more into me than i am into him as he keeps spamming snaps 🤣
time to leave i guess isn’t it

I know a guy who does that. I just ignore him after a while each time he does it.

Reply 10

Original post
by Anonymous
does this give u the ick
hey it’s probably just me lol but when you’ve been talking to a guy for a few weeks it’s exciting but i hate it when they just stop the convo and send just snaps constantly back and forth. so now i have left this guy on opened and he gets upset about it but ive told him i don’t really want to keep snapping back it’s pointless.
like leave the convo for another time or actually have a conversation instead of being so lazy as im the one doing it even tho hes more into me than i am into him as he keeps spamming snaps 🤣
time to leave i guess isn’t it

Definately. I dont understand why some guys cant having a normal convo on snap without it involving pics

Reply 11

Chicks that use the word ick give me the ick.

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