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Trying to date

Ive been trying to get into a relationship and find a girl but my course doesnt really have any for me to talk to and my unis is really dead so social life is just boring. Is there any ways or places i can try to talk to girl because i feel im just wasting my time doing nothing socially.

Reply 1

Sounds like you're at Loughbourogh? 😉
Or doing your degree in London?

For the majority of unis, the social life is what you make of it. OK at the "deader" ones you have to make more effort than others. But even then, there should be plenty of opportunities for you to meet and interact with amazing young women.
You just gotta take the opportunities you're given.

Round campus. Student's union. Outside lecture rooms. Student cafeteria. Gigs. Societies. When you're shopping. Social circle. Friends of friends. Female friends of the few females on your course. Online dating (make sure you have a good profile with good photos).

Reply 2

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by Redhood~
Ive been trying to get into a relationship and find a girl but my course doesnt really have any for me to talk to and my unis is really dead so social life is just boring. Is there any ways or places i can try to talk to girl because i feel im just wasting my time doing nothing socially.

its easy just ask a random question or ask for help and then thank her and when u meet her everytime after that keep smiling and she will think u crush on her and then u go and say hi may i ask if ur in relation?if she said no say u wanna go in a date?and boom!!

Reply 3

Original post
by Redhood~
Ive been trying to get into a relationship and find a girl but my course doesnt really have any for me to talk to and my unis is really dead so social life is just boring. Is there any ways or places i can try to talk to girl because i feel im just wasting my time doing nothing socially.

There's a whole world off-campus...with social events, sports, volunteering, part-time jobs, hobbies. And girls.

Reply 4

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by Dunnig Kruger
Sounds like you're at Loughbourogh? 😉
Or doing your degree in London?
For the majority of unis, the social life is what you make of it. OK at the "deader" ones you have to make more effort than others. But even then, there should be plenty of opportunities for you to meet and interact with amazing young women.
You just gotta take the opportunities you're given.
Round campus. Student's union. Outside lecture rooms. Student cafeteria. Gigs. Societies. When you're shopping. Social circle. Friends of friends. Female friends of the few females on your course. Online dating (make sure you have a good profile with good photos).

would never wish uni in london on my worst enemy 😭

Reply 5

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by Phoneetc
would never wish uni in london on my worst enemy 😭

Is london unis bad?

Reply 6

The social life at London unis tends to be less vibrant than in regional unis with large campuses.

Reply 7

Original post
by Redhood~
Is london unis bad?

isolating and feel like you have to work harder to make friendships than you would otherwise

Reply 8

Original post
by Redhood~
Ive been trying to get into a relationship and find a girl but my course doesnt really have any for me to talk to and my unis is really dead so social life is just boring. Is there any ways or places i can try to talk to girl because i feel im just wasting my time doing nothing socially.

I'd suggest looking online at local Facebook uni groups or just in general meeting people apps. Bumble, i think, has a dating a friendship version which might be helpful

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