Why do I fantasise about having s3x with people

Why do I always fantasise about having s3x with actors/actresses in movies or tv shows. It’s always the women who make me feel something. Yeah, I look at the actors on the screen and think “damn they’re nice looking” but it’s usually the women who looks really pretty or have something about that them that makes me think “wow, I would love todo something fun with them” it’s weird and crazy. It’s also weird and crazy how I haven’t had any relationships or interactions with a man or woman yet. I’m still a virgin, haha and I’m 25! I’m also a girl, and do find men attractive, but I do find some women really pretty too. I know there’s no rules on labels, and you like what/who you like. But I don’t know how I’d even approach such people LOL!

Like the idea of watching an actress on TV, really turns me on then seeing a girl in real life. Especially if I was to go out with my friends, to a bar, I’d be more interested in looking at attractive guys than a woman. But what’s also weird, is that it’s usually the older women who have something about them, that make me feel something rather than a younger women. Especially when I watch them on TV, for example, these actresses (Evia Longoria, Nia Long, Ellen Pompeo, Jennifer Ainston) to name a few, I find soo pretty and sexy and have something about that them, that makes me feel a spark. Like a tingly feeling inside.
A few months ago I was watching greys anatomy and watching Ellen(Meredith Grey) on screen just made me so h0rn¥, like every scene of her, I was just in love LOL! The same thing happened a year ago when I watching the morning show with Jennifer Ainston and just kept on admiring her. The actresses sometimes change but the feelings stay the same. I think I’m going INSANE!! Do I need to seek therapy for this kind of behaviour?! I’m sure this isn’t normal, to fantasise about having sex with entertainment figures.

Reply 1

the bear

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by Anonymous

Why do I always fantasise about having s3x with actors/actresses in movies or tv shows. It’s always the women who make me feel something. Yeah, I look at the actors on the screen and think “damn they’re nice looking” but it’s usually the women who looks really pretty or have something about that them that makes me think “wow, I would love todo something fun with them” it’s weird and crazy. It’s also weird and crazy how I haven’t had any relationships or interactions with a man or woman yet. I’m still a virgin, haha and I’m 25! I’m also a girl, and do find men attractive, but I do find some women really pretty too. I know there’s no rules on labels, and you like what/who you like. But I don’t know how I’d even approach such people LOL!
Like the idea of watching an actress on TV, really turns me on then seeing a girl in real life. Especially if I was to go out with my friends, to a bar, I’d be more interested in looking at attractive guys than a woman. But what’s also weird, is that it’s usually the older women who have something about them, that make me feel something rather than a younger women. Especially when I watch them on TV, for example, these actresses (Evia Longoria, Nia Long, Ellen Pompeo, Jennifer Ainston) to name a few, I find soo pretty and sexy and have something about that them, that makes me feel a spark. Like a tingly feeling inside.
A few months ago I was watching greys anatomy and watching Ellen(Meredith Grey) on screen just made me so h0rn¥, like every scene of her, I was just in love LOL! The same thing happened a year ago when I watching the morning show with Jennifer Ainston and just kept on admiring her. The actresses sometimes change but the feelings stay the same. I think I’m going INSANE!! Do I need to seek therapy for this kind of behaviour?! I’m sure this isn’t normal, to fantasise about having sex with entertainment figures.

as you say these are fantasies. they are not real life relationships. the movie industry deliberately peddles fantasies to people with humdrum lives ( ie 99.9% of us ).

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Crazy Jamie

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by Anonymous

I’m sure this isn’t normal, to fantasise about having sex with entertainment figures.

I'm quite sure it is absolutely normal to fantasise about having sex with entertainment figures. You think no one fantasised about Jennifer Aniston when she was in Friends? Or Eva Longoria when she was in Desperate Housewives? Come on now. The sex appeal of these actors and actresses and the characters they play is not only very real but something that they and people around them seek to control and, in very many cases, maximise. Ellen Pompeo is a great example of how that has evolved for one actress and character in the same series. At the start of Grey's Anatomy pretty much the first thing you learn about that character is that she's had sex with Patrick Dempsey. You think no one fantasised about either of them at the time? Because very many people did. Patrick Dempsey actually became a sex symbol as a result of that role. By contrast, the nature of how the character is presented changes as she gets older, but the character of Meredith Grey is still intended to be attractive, just in a different way. And that more mature and confident persona of older actresses and characters, which you're experiencing with the other actresses you've mentioned, can absolutely be just as alluring for certain people.

Basically, this is all normal. Feel free to enjoy it. You certainly shouldn't feel in any way guilty about it, and you most definitely do not need therapy.