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Why she has became like that?!

I already talked about this situation here’s.. but here we go again.. a few months ago my mom has send me somewhere else to live (she rented a room for me in a home I’ve stayed here for about 4 months) and I recently moved back with her a few days ago, and I’ve noticed that she has became toxic she controlling demanding abusive towards me she hit me and I started bleeding and she insults me, she denigres me, she wasn’t like that before in our old house, why she has became like that all of sudden?!

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by Anonymous
I already talked about this situation here’s.. but here we go again.. a few months ago my mom has send me somewhere else to live (she rented a room for me in a home I’ve stayed here for about 4 months) and I recently moved back with her a few days ago, and I’ve noticed that she has became toxic she controlling demanding abusive towards me she hit me and I started bleeding and she insults me, she denigres me, she wasn’t like that before in our old house, why she has became like that all of sudden?!

the answer to that question can only be given by her. speak to her about it when she is in a good mood and if you see no change, report the issue to a close family member and you move back out for the time being

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by Anonymous
I already talked about this situation here’s.. but here we go again.. a few months ago my mom has send me somewhere else to live (she rented a room for me in a home I’ve stayed here for about 4 months) and I recently moved back with her a few days ago, and I’ve noticed that she has became toxic she controlling demanding abusive towards me she hit me and I started bleeding and she insults me, she denigres me, she wasn’t like that before in our old house, why she has became like that all of sudden?!

Hey, I haven’t read you’re previous post but I’m so sorry that your mum treats you that way I honestly think if you would feel safe somewhere else or if there is anywhere else you could stay it may be best. But if she’s acting differently all of a sudden since you’ve moved they may have been something that happened to her, maybe it’s the reason you moved house? You could try to talk to her about it and try and understand at a time when she’s a bit calmer. You could also ask someone close to you for support for her and you to maybe help work through this? x

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by Anonymous
I already talked about this situation here’s.. but here we go again.. a few months ago my mom has send me somewhere else to live (she rented a room for me in a home I’ve stayed here for about 4 months) and I recently moved back with her a few days ago, and I’ve noticed that she has became toxic she controlling demanding abusive towards me she hit me and I started bleeding and she insults me, she denigres me, she wasn’t like that before in our old house, why she has became like that all of sudden?!

unless you ask, you will not find out. has there been a change in her life? a new partner? has she suffered a breavement? something happen to her in her workplace? I could make an endless list, I am sorry this is happening to you.
(edited 1 year ago)

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