Why she doing this?!

Anonymous #1

Why my mom is accusing me of doing things that I didn’t do, like she making up stories that aren’t true, I’m 23?!

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Anonymous #2

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by Anonymous

Why my mom is accusing me of doing things that I didn’t do, like she making up stories that aren’t true, I’m 23?!

what things, like ?.

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meenu89

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by Anonymous

Why my mom is accusing me of doing things that I didn’t do, like she making up stories that aren’t true, I’m 23?!

if you want to find out you will have ask her. what has she accused you of?

have you noticed a change in her life? is the first time she has done something like this?

(edited 10 months ago)

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Cloe louise

My mum's the same

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Cloe louise

Nit picks at everything

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Anonymous #1

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by Cloe louise

My mum's the same

Why they doing this?!

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Anonymous #2

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by Anonymous

Why they doing this?!

Maybe jealousy, that they're (your mum is) older and You are young ?. Remember in nature, and after all we are all"animals" (of a type) there is an "in built" process when a child gets a certain age to force it away from the parents/family group so "child" can go off an start its own family. It might be as basic as that , possibly. I will try and find something on that and post it.

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Anonymous #2

HERE is what ChatGPT said in answer to your question;

When someone accuses you of something you haven’t done, it can stem from various reasons, which may not always reflect your actions but rather their feelings, perspectives, or misunderstandings. Here are a few possibilities:

Misunderstanding or Miscommunication: She may have misunderstood a situation or received incorrect information, leading to her accusations.

Projection: Sometimes, people project their own fears, anxieties, or past experiences onto others. If she's feeling uncertain or stressed, this might influence her perceptions.

Fear or Worry: Parents often worry about their children’s choices. These accusations might stem from her concerns about you or her attempt to address something she's worried about indirectly.

Strained Relationship or Tension: If there has been conflict or unresolved issues between you, accusations might arise as a way of expressing deeper frustrations.

Difficulty Expressing Emotions: Some people struggle to communicate feelings of concern, disappointment, or fear. Accusations can become a misguided way to address underlying emotions.

What You Can Do

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Stay Calm: Reacting calmly can help de-escalate the situation and create space for understanding.

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Ask Questions: Gently ask why she believes you’ve done something. This can uncover any misunderstandings or fears.

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Provide Clarity: Share your side of the story in a respectful and clear manner.

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Look for Patterns: If this happens often, consider whether external factors, such as stress, health issues, or past experiences, might influence her behavior.

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Seek Support: If these accusations cause significant distress, a neutral third party, like a counselor or family mediator, might help improve communication.