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Can I be a radiographer or sonographer when I’m an empath?

I cry when I see people in pain and I experience emotions to a heightened level where it’ll consume me. I will literally start sobbing when someone tells me about their sad painful life experiences etc. I’m worried because I really wanted to get into radiography then sonography but i know there’ll be different patients with complex lives and many cancer patients involved - it would break my heart seeing them suffer. Should I pursue this career or not?

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by UniStudent134
I cry when I see people in pain and I experience emotions to a heightened level where it’ll consume me. I will literally start sobbing when someone tells me about their sad painful life experiences etc. I’m worried because I really wanted to get into radiography then sonography but i know there’ll be different patients with complex lives and many cancer patients involved - it would break my heart seeing them suffer. Should I pursue this career or not?

If you are too emotional for an already emotional career, I think you have answered your own question.
If it were me in your position, I'd do my best to try and suck it up, but I know you might not be able to do that. The career would become easier over time as your emotions would gradually harden, (happens to doctors, nurses all allied healthcare professionals over time) so maybe it would be worthwhile.
I think you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put yourself into that situation, if the job is worth it to you even if it will cause you to be emotional.
Best of luck to you in whatever you do decide to do.

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by stilllearning123
If you are too emotional for an already emotional career, I think you have answered your own question.
If it were me in your position, I'd do my best to try and suck it up, but I know you might not be able to do that. The career would become easier over time as your emotions would gradually harden, (happens to doctors, nurses all allied healthcare professionals over time) so maybe it would be worthwhile.
I think you have to ask yourself if you are willing to put yourself into that situation, if the job is worth it to you even if it will cause you to be emotional.
Best of luck to you in whatever you do decide to do.


Thank you for the advice..you are right I may have to explore a different field maybe one without patient interaction but I still get to help them

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by UniStudent134
Thank you for the advice..you are right I may have to explore a different field maybe one without patient interaction but I still get to help them

Maybe some kind of labs worker? Do the blood tests/ tests for diseases etc.?
Whatever you do will work out the right way for you, I believe in you 💯

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by stilllearning123
Maybe some kind of labs worker? Do the blood tests/ tests for diseases etc.?
Whatever you do will work out the right way for you, I believe in you 💯


I actually have lots of lab experience because I do a science degree and hate it so much - which is why I want to switch onto another course but I have no idea what to do!

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by UniStudent134
I actually have lots of lab experience because I do a science degree and hate it so much - which is why I want to switch onto another course but I have no idea what to do!

Well medicine as a whole is mainly patient interaction so if you can't get over being to emotional with patients, I don't see another solution.

I do believe you could be what you originally suggested if you manage to not become too attached to each person. Of the radiographers I know, there is minimal patient interaction outwith the x-ray etc. then you hand over the diagnosis to the doctor and they will follow up with the patient, so you wouldn't have to break any bad news.
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by UniStudent134
I actually have lots of lab experience because I do a science degree and hate it so much - which is why I want to switch onto another course but I have no idea what to do!


Speech and language therapy, dietetics, orthoptics, podiatry, prosthetics and orthoptics. There are lots of other options:

https://www.england.nhs.uk/ahp/role/

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by UniStudent134
I cry when I see people in pain and I experience emotions to a heightened level where it’ll consume me. I will literally start sobbing when someone tells me about their sad painful life experiences etc. I’m worried because I really wanted to get into radiography then sonography but i know there’ll be different patients with complex lives and many cancer patients involved - it would break my heart seeing them suffer. Should I pursue this career or not?


I understand that you’re an emotional person, but the world of ultrasound can be challenging and very harsh. Patients look to you for answers, support, and sometimes solutions. If you’re unable to manage your emotions in these situations, sonography may not be the right career path for you.

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On the positive side, empathy is a really important quality in healthcare professionals, healthcare professionals aren't robots and some stories will touch more deeply than others (usually because the patient reminds us of ourselves or someone we love) but there must be a balance between care and professionalism. Patients and families are often struggling to navigate their own feelings during diagnosis and treatment and kindly, they do not need the pressure or stress of managing ours too. Having these boundaries in place protects both sides of the care relationship, the professional boundaries also exist to protect the HCP. Frontline healthcare is a job high in emotional labour (buckets of empathy required, lots of stress, regulating your own emotions) and as such is a real burnout risk. Whichever role you choose, being able to maintain an appropriate professional boundary is fundamental and will enable you to provide a safe, effective service to many, many patients and families over many years and retain your own mental health alongside.

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