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Safe to say, my degree was a bit of a car crash, and I found most of the "support" I was given/offered a bit woeful at best, and downright dangerous at worst. I won't go into every single detail (because it could scare some people off Oxford, I imagine - which is not something I deliberately set out to do in any of my posts!), but to give you some of the highlights:•
I had one tutor make jokes about my psychosis upon first learning about it ("you're not going to knife [my junior tutor], are you?!"). Meanwhile one admin staff made unfounded assumptions about me being dangerous towards the tutor who had made the joke and how I might knife him, whilst another admin member made a joke about my suicide attempt
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I was told my symptom of hearing dangerous voices (I didn't have a diagnosis back then. I'd been discharged from Oxford's mental health outpatients hospital for being too normal
) couldn't be taken into account in exam marking and final degree classification, even if I started hearing them in the exam(s). The reasonining? "We don't know how you would have done, had you not been hearing voices". Infuriating, not to mention untrue (I had mock exam grades from before I became psychotic)
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A counsellor broke confidentiality without warning me or seeking my permission, and spoke to my uni GP, who then gave the counsellor private info about my health and my conversations with said GP
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One of the saddest things about everything was that no one in my college thought to suggest to me that I should speak to the uni disability service staff. College academics and admin staff tried to deal with everything themselves, risking my safety/life in the process (NB. This wouldn't happen to you because you'd be applying with a pre-existing condition)
) - but I would hate for anyone else to ever suffer even a smidgen of some of the things I faced 
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Safe to say, my degree was a bit of a car crash, and I found most of the "support" I was given/offered a bit woeful at best, and downright dangerous at worst. I won't go into every single detail (because it could scare some people off Oxford, I imagine - which is not something I deliberately set out to do in any of my posts!), but to give you some of the highlights:•
I had one tutor make jokes about my psychosis upon first learning about it ("you're not going to knife [my junior tutor], are you?!"). Meanwhile one admin staff made unfounded assumptions about me being dangerous towards the tutor who had made the joke and how I might knife him, whilst another admin member made a joke about my suicide attempt
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I was told my symptom of hearing dangerous voices (I didn't have a diagnosis back then. I'd been discharged from Oxford's mental health outpatients hospital for being too normal
) couldn't be taken into account in exam marking and final degree classification, even if I started hearing them in the exam(s). The reasonining? "We don't know how you would have done, had you not been hearing voices". Infuriating, not to mention untrue (I had mock exam grades from before I became psychotic)
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A counsellor broke confidentiality without warning me or seeking my permission, and spoke to my uni GP, who then gave the counsellor private info about my health and my conversations with said GP
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One of the saddest things about everything was that no one in my college thought to suggest to me that I should speak to the uni disability service staff. College academics and admin staff tried to deal with everything themselves, risking my safety/life in the process (NB. This wouldn't happen to you because you'd be applying with a pre-existing condition)
) - but I would hate for anyone else to ever suffer even a smidgen of some of the things I faced 
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Thanks for your validation and kind words, and sorry to hear Sheffield was rather uniform and sometimes obstructive in their approach
That's so disappointing 
Though, as a Londoner, I think London is the best city in the world
so would def advocate for that too
I'm not saying don't apply to Oxford at all, just suggesting you do whatever research you can about Ox (and indeed any other uni) to compare and contrast the different levels of support and make an informed decision 
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Thanks for your validation and kind words, and sorry to hear Sheffield was rather uniform and sometimes obstructive in their approach
That's so disappointing 
Though, as a Londoner, I think London is the best city in the world
so would def advocate for that too
I'm not saying don't apply to Oxford at all, just suggesting you do whatever research you can about Ox (and indeed any other uni) to compare and contrast the different levels of support and make an informed decision 
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) and you have to produce work in advance for those tutorials. So it meant I had a deadline for a piece of work roughly every 2-3 days or so during term-time, including 16 essays a term (compared to the 2 that friends at other top music departments were doing per term. Though admittedly, my essays didn't count towards my final degree classification!). When I was studying there, we were studying modules that were (we were told by a DPhil student, who had done her undergrad at a top non-Oxbridge music dept) Masters level and that weren't taught at other unis outside of Oxbridge. So the volume and the depth of the work were both quite advanced and intense.
So that's something to bear in mind when making any decisions about accepting potential Oxford offer 
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