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he likes me but still hasn’t met me for like 6 months

i’m starting to get so annoyed. he likes me and seems like a nice lad.
we both started knowing each other last july and i kept asking if he was available to meet bc yk we are flirting and both like each other but he kept saying he was busy. he was also very se*ual and so i removed him as i told him that’s not what i wanted as i wanted something proper not a one night stand. then a month after i remove him he messages on instagram asking if we could re start and then now he’s still not able to meet and always meeting up with mates and family members. i get he could be busy but surely you have at least an hour of your time AT LEAST!
he’s probs just using me for his boredom when at home idk. i’ve given up tbh.
he doesn’t even live far!!!!! there’s no excuse really.
do i just cut it off with him for good this time? because it is hurting me ngl

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by Anonymous
i’m starting to get so annoyed. he likes me and seems like a nice lad.
we both started knowing each other last july and i kept asking if he was available to meet bc yk we are flirting and both like each other but he kept saying he was busy. he was also very se*ual and so i removed him as i told him that’s not what i wanted as i wanted something proper not a one night stand. then a month after i remove him he messages on instagram asking if we could re start and then now he’s still not able to meet and always meeting up with mates and family members. i get he could be busy but surely you have at least an hour of your time AT LEAST!
he’s probs just using me for his boredom when at home idk. i’ve given up tbh.
he doesn’t even live far!!!!! there’s no excuse really.
do i just cut it off with him for good this time? because it is hurting me ngl

Honestly, I would, it also seems you both be looking for something different from what you said regarding the reason as to why you initially cut him off.

Reply 2

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by Phoneetc
Honestly, I would, it also seems you both be looking for something different from what you said regarding the reason as to why you initially cut him off.


yeah makes sense but then he said he is wanting something proper now and he made a mistake. everything was going smoothly for a couple days and i guess he just lied😂

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by Anonymous
yeah makes sense but then he said he is wanting something proper now and he made a mistake. everything was going smoothly for a couple days and i guess he just lied😂

Imo he showed his actual intentions in July with those comments and he was just trying to save face, if you're both really on the same page there is no reason as to why he can't take maximum half a day off to be with you.

Reply 4

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by Phoneetc
Imo he showed his actual intentions in July with those comments and he was just trying to save face, if you're both really on the same page there is no reason as to why he can't take maximum half a day off to be with you.


yeah it’s not difficult i spoke to him last night abt it. he said he’s been busy with work and things. but he can see his friends almost every day at a pub intl midnight ??? makes zero sense to me. he said he wanted to meet next week but he never said any day and plus he won’t stick to it. there’s no point.

Reply 5

I would cut things off. If a guy wants you there will be no room for you to worry as he will show you. Let it be and move on. Not worth your time☺️

Reply 6

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by Anonymous
I would cut things off. If a guy wants you there will be no room for you to worry as he will show you. Let it be and move on. Not worth your time☺️


thanks. he’s removed me because i said everything i needed to say. 😂 shows he doesn’t care that much to listen to what he’s done wrong.

Reply 7

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by Anonymous
i’m starting to get so annoyed. he likes me and seems like a nice lad.
we both started knowing each other last july and i kept asking if he was available to meet bc yk we are flirting and both like each other but he kept saying he was busy. he was also very se*ual and so i removed him as i told him that’s not what i wanted as i wanted something proper not a one night stand. then a month after i remove him he messages on instagram asking if we could re start and then now he’s still not able to meet and always meeting up with mates and family members. i get he could be busy but surely you have at least an hour of your time AT LEAST!
he’s probs just using me for his boredom when at home idk. i’ve given up tbh.
he doesn’t even live far!!!!! there’s no excuse really.
do i just cut it off with him for good this time? because it is hurting me ngl

BLOCK HIM ASAP!!! why would anyone need stress that way plus if he isn't making effort now he won't in the future😀

Reply 8

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by Anonymous
BLOCK HIM ASAP!!! why would anyone need stress that way plus if he isn't making effort now he won't in the future😀


thanks he removed me anyway haha cos i told him what he’s done wrong and things. it’s so wrong for people to do that idk why they can’t just be honest 😂😂😂

Reply 9

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by Anonymous
i’m starting to get so annoyed. he likes me and seems like a nice lad.
we both started knowing each other last july and i kept asking if he was available to meet bc yk we are flirting and both like each other but he kept saying he was busy. he was also very se*ual and so i removed him as i told him that’s not what i wanted as i wanted something proper not a one night stand. then a month after i remove him he messages on instagram asking if we could re start and then now he’s still not able to meet and always meeting up with mates and family members. i get he could be busy but surely you have at least an hour of your time AT LEAST!
he’s probs just using me for his boredom when at home idk. i’ve given up tbh.
he doesn’t even live far!!!!! there’s no excuse really.
do i just cut it off with him for good this time? because it is hurting me ngl


cut him off!!! someone who truly respects you and listens to you!! you are worth so much more then all the stress

Reply 10

I wouldn't waste your time not worth it

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