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Feel like I’m bi

Hi guys i got be really careful in what i say in case i have offend people i do apologise if i do i supports all rights bi/gay. I just want get this off my chest so I can move on with my life.

I think I’m straight as I found many girls pretty and want to be involved with them but I do watch gay porn I don’t want to do anything with a guy in real life as it’s not who I am.

I think I have come to a point as Identify as straight. I do want to clarify there is nothing wrong with being gay. I’m not sure what just wanted to know what you guys think?

Reply 1

Ciel.

Original post by Anonymous

Hi guys i got be really careful in what i say in case i have offend people i do apologise if i do i supports all rights bi/gay. I just want get this off my chest so I can move on with my life.
I think I’m straight as I found many girls pretty and want to be involved with them but I do watch gay porn I don’t want to do anything with a guy in real life as it’s not who I am.
I think I have come to a point as Identify as straight. I do want to clarify there is nothing wrong with being gay. I’m not sure what just wanted to know what you guys think?

i doubt anyone cares... there are worse fetishes to have, some people are attracted to lampposts. just don't tell your future girlfriend.

Reply 2

gabi56

Original post by Anonymous

Hi guys i got be really careful in what i say in case i have offend people i do apologise if i do i supports all rights bi/gay. I just want get this off my chest so I can move on with my life.
I think I’m straight as I found many girls pretty and want to be involved with them but I do watch gay porn I don’t want to do anything with a guy in real life as it’s not who I am.
I think I have come to a point as Identify as straight. I do want to clarify there is nothing wrong with being gay. I’m not sure what just wanted to know what you guys think?

It’s a completely valid thing to wonder, try not to view it as something shameful and think of it more as exciting that you’re getting to know yourself and explore your identity!
Coming from a bisexual person myself, I would say take your time- you don’t have to make a decision on a label straight away, don’t feel rushed. It’s okay to not know! There’s also no shame in trying out a label and then later deciding it’s not for you- for example, I used to think I was gay and later realised I’m actually bisexual.
In a couple years time or something you might feel like you actually do want to experiment with guys, or you also may not: both are perfectly okay, and it’s also perfectly okay not to know right now.
Overall don’t put too much pressure on yourself to definitively put a label on yourself right now, and be kind to yourself in the process. Best of luck!

Reply 3

anosmianAcrimony

There are so many people out there who make assumptions about their sexuality because it's what they've always been told by their parents and society, and they always feel unfulfilled but never really let themselves think about why.

You're not one of those people - by thinking about it you're taking the first steps towards a better understanding of yourself. It's great! You're brave to be thinking about it even this much!

You might well just be straight. I don't watch porn but apparently it's surprisingly common for straight people to enjoy gay porn. But anyway, even if you are straight you'll feel better having explored all possibilities and figured that out properly, rather than just accepting what you've been told.

The poster above has said it extremely well. There's no pressure, no rush, no shame, and no wrong answers. You're a legitimate person no matter what.

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Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Original post by anosmianAcrimony

There are so many people out there who make assumptions about their sexuality because it's what they've always been told by their parents and society, and they always feel unfulfilled but never really let themselves think about why.
You're not one of those people - by thinking about it you're taking the first steps towards a better understanding of yourself. It's great! You're brave to be thinking about it even this much!
You might well just be straight. I don't watch porn but apparently it's surprisingly common for straight people to enjoy gay porn. But anyway, even if you are straight you'll feel better having explored all possibilities and figured that out properly, rather than just accepting what you've been told.
The poster above has said it extremely well. There's no pressure, no rush, no shame, and no wrong answers. You're a legitimate person no matter what.

Well if I find girls attractive than I guess that makes me straight as you even I say to myself I would a girlfriend yet nothing ever happened. I have been told am good looking and not just from my mum. 😂

But yeah I come to a point were being in a relationship with a girl and the fact that I sm 28M and have not had the experiences it brings my confidence down but I still focus on myself.

as I got opportunities coming and I have to job and planing to move out soon into the city. But to answer my question am I gay Definitely no but nothing wrong with being gay do I find girls attractive very much so

Reply 5

GordenG

Original post by Anonymous

Hi guys i got be really careful in what i say in case i have offend people i do apologise if i do i supports all rights bi/gay. I just want get this off my chest so I can move on with my life.
I think I’m straight as I found many girls pretty and want to be involved with them but I do watch gay porn I don’t want to do anything with a guy in real life as it’s not who I am.
I think I have come to a point as Identify as straight. I do want to clarify there is nothing wrong with being gay. I’m not sure what just wanted to know what you guys think?

Hi there! It sounds like you're still figuring things out, and that's totally okay. It's normal to have mixed feelings or explore different aspects of your sexuality. From what you've shared, it seems like you identify as straight, but watching gay porn doesn't necessarily mean you're not straight—it could just be something you're curious about or enjoy without wanting to act on it. Everyone's journey is unique, and it's important to define your identity on your own terms. As long as you're respectful and true to yourself, you're on the right track!